But then why not just pick hedonism if you want the belief system that is most gratifying?
Pleasure is not as gratifying as learning how to love. And God's love has better quality of pleasure, than any physical sensation I have ever experienced, and better than I have tried to make myself become and feel by means of meditation and self discipline.
Are you saying that Christianity explains something about reality?
We offer explanation. But our explanation might not meet your standards.
One item which atheists seem to not accept is how there is "the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience" (in Ephesians 2:2). Ones do not want to accept that there is the spirit of evil, of selfishness, which "works" people to become how they are evil and selfish and do what they do. Their "lusts of their hearts" (Romans 1:18-32) work very hard to drive people to go after pleasure which does not truly gratify > enough is never enough. But God satisfies us in His love (Hebrews 13:5) which has Heaven's own quality of pleasantness of rest.
Those "lusts" are of the heart > they are not physical and organic. Because our hearts are spiritual with our hearts' desires and preferences. And God does not dominate and drive us to go after pleasure. He first will satisfy us, then guide us, in His own peace > Colossians 3:15 < I find it interesting how ones claim they have left "Christianity" . . . seeing how Christianity includes how our Heavenly Father personally rules each of us in His own peace, as part of Christianity. This is not an intellectual item, but a reality included.
Plus, in God's love (Romans 5:5) we enjoy how His almighty power keeps us safe from cruel and tormenting things such as boredom and loneliness, frustration, nasty angry reacting, arguing and complaining, bitterness, unforgiveness, and hurts which won't go away. He keeps us safe from torments, including dominating and dictatorial lusts for pleasures. Only God's love gets rid of personality torments which are spiritually rooted in fear >
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love." (1 John 4:18)
But if people are living in "the spirit of the world" (1 Corinthians 2:12), they can have deep-down, low-down nasty rotting (2 Timothy 3:13) stuff witch is so lousy feeling, that they are desperate to get some pleasure or excitement in order to feel something nicer than their own mess of sin. But only God is able to deliver us "from the power of Satan to God" (Acts 26:18), and correct (Hebrews 12:4-11) and heal (James 5:16) and cure us (1 John 4:17) to become like Jesus (Galatians 4:19), instead.
Then we are even pleasing to God our Father, instead of only trying to please our own selves
"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
I offer how the "beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit" is in God's own love, and this beauty of God's gentle and quiet love is "incorruptible", meaning this has God's own almighty power shared with us so things of Satan's nasty spirit can not mess with us . . . as much as we have grown and matured in God's love.
So, Nihil, as much as we are deeply gentle and quiet in God's love, we enjoy His almighty protection against any and all sorts of personality torments. But I understand that atheists do not believe that our personality with its ways and desires is spiritual in existence. But there is a reason why scientists have not been able to change a personality, by means of physical substances and talking and physical actions. You can't cure a spiritual trouble or identity problem, by means of what is only physical. Ones have said they know they can not cure a psychiatric problem by means of medications; I have read this in a secular mental health newsletter, I think it was . . . not that I did not already know this
Our Apostle Peter says we need to have "the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit", and Jesus says, "I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls," in Matthew 11:28-30. So, I see how becoming gentle and quiet is basically the same as becoming how Jesus is gentle and humble. By becoming gentle and quiet in God's love curing our nature, we have what is "incorruptible" against soul tormenting things, and so we have "rest for your souls".
Plus, instead of only trying to please ourselves and make ourselves feel good, we even become pleasing to God, Himself, in this "gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." This makes us like Jesus who is so pleasing to our Heavenly Father.
So, this is part of what I have discovered to be Christianity and basic Bible. I notice that ones who say they have left "Christianity" don't seem to talk much about this being what they have left.