Help!

[Krissy Cakes]

You've said what everyone else wants. What do you want? That's what you should be fighting for.

I don't want a divorce. He knows that. I'm trying to fight but its just so hard when only one person is fighting and the other one wants to give up. I really feel like giving up too.

 

[Albion]

First, you CANNOT doubt if you "care if you live or die." That's because you have a child who needs you, no matter what else happens.

Second, it sounds as though you don't exactly have "no one." Even if your parents live far away and don't want you to bring Peanut, you didn't say that they won't talk to you or give advice. Even the father-in-law sounds like he wants to be supportive of you, even though you doubt that. When people say to confide in other people, these seem like possibilities.

Hard as it is, don't give up yet.

 

[Aelred of Rievaulx]

I don't want a divorce. He knows that. I'm trying to fight but its just so hard when only one person is fighting and the other one wants to give up. I really feel like giving up too.

This is a hard situation to be in. Has any sort of counselling worked? Don't treat your feelings like "second choice" which is what most women find their opinions to be in a marriage, they are what you want and are every bit as serious and true as what he wants.

 

[BookishGirl]

I will tell her. But its like right now I don't care if I live or die. This is the worst.

Thank you for your prayers.

You're welcome.

You said you texted your pastor, but why don't you place a phone call to him today and ask for help. Is it possible for you and your husband to go to counseling together? If he isn't willing, go by yourself.

 

[zippy2]

Hello dear. I am so sorry to hear all of this. Who is Peanut?

 

[BookishGirl]

Still praying for you, ArmyWife. How are you doing? Feel free to send me a private message if you prefer.

 

[Sunflower232]

So sorry to hear this. Praying.

 

[RuthD]

So sorry this is happening to you. I hope it can be resolved somehow. Praying for you and hubby.