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[newyorknewyork]

Please HELP!

I need advice as to what I should do!

Ok, I'm at College studying to be a teacher. I have completed one full year of study which is 8 subjects.

Suddenly, my college has changed parts of the degree I am studying. This now means that 5 of the 8 subjects I have studied hard in are no longer recognised. It is as if I haven't even studied them, when I have! I have worked really hard and the college won't recognise it!

So I am fighting my case... talking to course convenors, lecturers, administration, even newspaper journalists are calling me interested in whats happening! I am fighting my case, trying to get what I have studied recognised - because otherwise all the thousands of dollars I spent studying the course seems a waste.

I feel that it is so unfair - but the worst part is that I have to pay huge amounts of money to study each subject and now all that money is down the drain, because the college will no longer recognise all of the subjects I've studied.

Recently, I have been getting really really clucky (wanting to have kids) and God has changed my heart in a powerful way regarding having children. (I was not that long ago wanting to adopt the kids out if we had an unplanned pregnancy, whereas now I want to have kids right now!!)

A few months ago, I was speaking to hubby... I was tossing up the idea of whether or not to leave uni for good. I would like to be a teacher, however uni just doesn't seem my cup of tea. I HATE study! HATE it! I ended up deciding I would stay just so I can teach and so I have a degree behind me.

Because I have been getting REALLY clucky recently, hubby and I have been praying about this.. asking God for direction as to when he wants us to have kids.

Is this sudden college chaos possible a "sign" that I am meant to leave uni (whether or not I have kids now)??? What do you think??? What should I do??
Part of me secretly wishes God would say "leave uni" coz then I have a good excuse to leave!

I need lots of advice and help!!

THANK YOU,

very confused tsuriyel

 

[RomanPrincess]

wait it out and see what happens...try to get the credit if you can and if not then you did all you can do and the rest is up to God. Obey God and leave all the consequences to him,pray about it and ask God what he wants you to do and to direct your steps.

 

[goldenviolet]

tsuriyel

Dear Father, please provide answers to your daughter and lead her in the direction that will bless her. please help the situation at school be resolved without loss or injustice. and Father, please bless the timing and cercumstances for this family to become parents. in Jesus name, amen.

 

[newyorknewyork]

wait it out and see what happens...try to get the credit if you can and if not then you did all you can do and the rest is up to God. Obey God and leave all the consequences to him,pray about it and ask God what he wants you to do and to direct your steps.

thank you RomanPrincess for your reply and what you said

God bless you

 

[newyorknewyork]

tsuriyel

Dear Father, please provide answers to your daughter and lead her in the direction that will bless her. please help the situation at school be resolved without loss or injustice. and Father, please bless the timing and cercumstances for this family to become parents. in Jesus name, amen.

thank you Dee for replying and praying for me!

i really appreciate people's advice and prayers right now...

God bless you

 

[goldenviolet]

God bless you! Dear Father please give our dear tsuriyel with a great comfort too. Father please help her not to feel stress or anxiety too much, but to be constinately directed to peace. Father if there is anything joyful and praise worthy, please let it shine over her. thank you, in Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Rut]

I think you shall wait and see what happen becuase you fight.Sometimes when you fight it`s take long time to get a answer.Try to pray and see what God want.I have seen sometimes that the answer I get from God I haven`t waited for that answer.Try to meditate how much you want to be a teacher and want a child.I mean if that is only a feeling you have to get a child now.Try to see what you can do of the courses you have take too.If you can get a proffession of them maybe God want you get that and then you haven`t throught out all the money.I hope you understand what I mean

 

[BOJAX]

You will eventually be a teacher to your future child anyway.

 

[newyorknewyork]

I think you shall wait and see what happen becuase you fight.Sometimes when you fight it`s take long time to get a answer.Try to pray and see what God want.I have seen sometimes that the answer I get from God I haven`t waited for that answer.Try to meditate how much you want to be a teacher and want a child.I mean if that is only a feeling you have to get a child now.Try to see what you can do of the courses you have take too.If you can get a proffession of them maybe God want you get that and then you haven`t throught out all the money.I hope you understand what I mean

thank you Rut for your advice

God bless you

tsuriyel

 

[newyorknewyork]

You will eventually be a teacher to your future child anyway.

thanks

its funny coz my husband and i read your reply and we thought that I will indeed be a teacher to our kids coz my hubby and i are thinking of home schooling our kids! good thought!

 

[puppy]

i pray that you make the right choice considering your college course and god shows you the way to go, with respect to the actual course changing you should be awarded some form of compensation as it is wrong of them to change the curriculum of the course that you originally signed up for

 

[Renuka]

Hi Tsuriyel,
I am a teacher but my professional qualification is of an agriculturist....i soent 2 + 3 years at university, i was the topper of my class but little did i knopw that the Lord wanted me to be a teacher. Circumstances forced me to change my profession and i feel this is the Lords doing.... I no longer look back at my time at univ as a waste cos i am able to counsel my students about univ life, hostel life and i am what i am cos of all my experince at univ and that sets me apart from the rest.
Tsuriyel I believe and have experienced that the Lord does not let anything happen in our life that is not for our good...its only later that we realise it.
Spend a lot of time in oprayer and ask for His constant guidance all you know you may have fallen pregnant afterall and the Lord knows that!!!(my guess!!! )
Don't lose heart ....we are praying for u and be sure that what God has planned for ylou is the best!!!!!

 

[Renuka]

I just realised we are country neighbours......vanakam

 

[Advent Christian]

Hello Tsuriyel; I pray the Lord brings you resolution to your feelings of confusion.
As to advice; for what it is worth I do have some thing to add concerning the class credits, while I agree it seems unfair and you should endeavor to get credit for them, I would advise you to release the expectations of any secular establishment to have much quality of fairness. As long as you hold to the expectation of being treated fairly by the world you will continue to be hurt and discouraged, for this world is of it’s father, Satan. Count on God to make all things, even the blows of life from this world in which we live, to bring all things together for good so long as we trust in Him and His ways.
In short expect nothing good from earthly man expect all good from God.
As to the continuation of your studies; have you considered the possibility of this not being God wanting you to stop your studies but instead leading you to change them? Is there some topic you sense a drawing to study and even maybe a gift towards understanding? Our Lord works in amazing ways and often His biggest hindrance is our own intelligence. I pray for you that you find the road to fulfillment and I know God will supply you with this in His time.
I apologize if I sound course, I am not real good at diplomacy. Please know all I say be it here or any other post in which you may read my words, I speak from love to all my brothers and sisters in Christ.
As always my love to all and May God Bless.

 

[clessie]

I pray that the LORD will guide you,and keep you close by his side.Have Faith, and he will see you through.Good Luck*

 

[newyorknewyork]

God bless you! Dear Father please give our dear tsuriyel with a great comfort too. Father please help her not to feel stress or anxiety too much, but to be constinately directed to peace. Father if there is anything joyful and praise worthy, please let it shine over her. thank you, in Jesus' name, amen.

thank you so much for continuing praying for me Dee, I really appreciate it! :hugs:

 

[newyorknewyork]

i pray that you make the right choice considering your college course and god shows you the way to go, with respect to the actual course changing you should be awarded some form of compensation as it is wrong of them to change the curriculum of the course that you originally signed up for

thank you puppy for your advice i really appreciate it!

God bless you !

 

[newyorknewyork]

Hi Tsuriyel,
I am a teacher but my professional qualification is of an agriculturist....i soent 2 + 3 years at university, i was the topper of my class but little did i knopw that the Lord wanted me to be a teacher. Circumstances forced me to change my profession and i feel this is the Lords doing.... I no longer look back at my time at univ as a waste cos i am able to counsel my students about univ life, hostel life and i am what i am cos of all my experince at univ and that sets me apart from the rest.
Tsuriyel I believe and have experienced that the Lord does not let anything happen in our life that is not for our good...its only later that we realise it.
Spend a lot of time in oprayer and ask for His constant guidance all you know you may have fallen pregnant afterall and the Lord knows that!!!(my guess!!! )
Don't lose heart ....we are praying for u and be sure that what God has planned for ylou is the best!!!!!

thanks Renuka for your great advice its great hearing from someone who is a teacher! I loove your display pic btw! 2 teach is 2 change lives 4 ever! thats so clever!

God bless you

 

[newyorknewyork]

Hello Tsuriyel; I pray the Lord brings you resolution to your feelings of confusion.
As to advice; for what it is worth I do have some thing to add concerning the class credits, while I agree it seems unfair and you should endeavor to get credit for them, I would advise you to release the expectations of any secular establishment to have much quality of fairness. As long as you hold to the expectation of being treated fairly by the world you will continue to be hurt and discouraged, for this world is of it’s father, Satan. Count on God to make all things, even the blows of life from this world in which we live, to bring all things together for good so long as we trust in Him and His ways.
In short expect nothing good from earthly man expect all good from God.
As to the continuation of your studies; have you considered the possibility of this not being God wanting you to stop your studies but instead leading you to change them? Is there some topic you sense a drawing to study and even maybe a gift towards understanding? Our Lord works in amazing ways and often His biggest hindrance is our own intelligence. I pray for you that you find the road to fulfillment and I know God will supply you with this in His time.
I apologize if I sound course, I am not real good at diplomacy. Please know all I say be it here or any other post in which you may read my words, I speak from love to all my brothers and sisters in Christ.
As always my love to all and May God Bless.

thanks advent christian for replying and thanks 4 yr advice! i like yr perspective on not expecting much justice from a worldly system! no you weren't harsh by the way.

 

[newyorknewyork]

I pray that the LORD will guide you,and keep you close by his side.Have Faith, and he will see you through.Good Luck*

clessie, thanks 4 replying and for your advice! God bless you!