Help on kissing

[Oscar The Grouch]

Close your eyes, pucker your lips, lean in, and do this

LoL!! that was funny.

to the OP, i would say just relax and let it happen, dont force it. and also just be very careful, kissing is something that is intimate and special and fun but also remember that it is something that can ignite fires within and be a major obstacle to your walk with christ. just be careful

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Close your eyes, pucker your lips, lean in, and do this

Thats hilarious.

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Well, I havent kissed my boyfriend yet, and I can't wait until I do too

Im still not 100% sure if I want to wait till I am engaged or married or what. I always believed that I wanted to wait until at least engagement, but Im not entierly sure. He know's how I feel... and he probally wished it wasn't so, but I haven't totally made up my mind yet. I always said and believe that its a decision both people in the relationship should make. And honestly, its something I would like to talk to him about, and decide what we want to do, and set boundaries for ourselves. But Im not totally sure how to bring it up with him...
Seems kinda like a weird converstion to bring up yah know? "Hey, let talk about kissing" lol sounds kinda weird.
Im totally head over heals crazy for him, and he's just about the best thing that has happened to me in a very long time. And I really want to kiss him. But I want him to make the first move (of course) and I want to have some boundaries. (like no french kissing, or no making out, or anything like that.) BUt I would love a nice soft kiss on the lips or whatever...
Alright now Im getting all giggly... hahaha

But yah, how does one bring it up? Or should I wait for him to bring it up? (Which I would rather, but Im not too sure he would). And also I dont want to talk about it, and then the next time we see eachother, expect a kiss.... I want it to happen, naturally ya know?

I also have to admit that I want our first kiss to be super romantic. I donno something and somewheres we will both remember.
Sheesh, Im such a chick
Im getting butterflies just thinking about it, I sitll get butterflies thinking about when he kissed me on the cheek

 

[KristianJ]

I can definitely empathise with the "super romantic" bit, Candice...but if that's clasified as a chick thing...

Danie and I have discussed the issue at great length, and I think we've established what the boundaries will be when that first "real" kiss comes around. I know that the moment that it happens will need to be appropriate and not just a spur of the moment "hey, let's just have a smooch for the fun of it" thing...because it's something that I'd like to remember and not regret. And that's why I think the best moment would be alone, but not somewhere where there'd be a risk of letting that kiss linger and inflame into anything that would jeopardise our purity.

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

I can definitely empathise with the "super romantic" bit, Candice...but if that's clasified as a chick thing...

Well I gues it;s not just a chick thing... I just never really thought that it would be something guys would get excited over

 

[BahBahBritty86]

lol...Candice you rock!!! It seems like everywhere (thread) I go to you're right there with the same exact opinion! lol...we need to go out for coffee or something and gush over all this girly stuff!

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

lol...Candice you rock!!! It seems like everywhere (thread) I go to you're right there with the same exact opinion! lol...we need to go out for coffee or something and gush over all this girly stuff!

Yah we totally do. That would be so cool
Where abouts in the US are you?
(I just finished reading your post in the wedding thread lol)

 

[BahBahBritty86]

Yah we totally do. That would be so cool
Where abouts in the US are you?
(I just finished reading your post in the wedding thread lol)

lol...I didn't mean literally...but anyhoo I'm in Minnesota!

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

lol...I didn't mean literally...but anyhoo I'm in Minnesota!

LOL i know that, I was just curious silly

 

[Ringu]

I guess we need to start a kissing school.

 

[SOLDOUT4HIM]

I personally think a peck on the lips before engagement is fine, but making out is muy dangerous. If it causes a physiological response, you probably shouldn't be doing it. If there is a body response, you probably have crossed the line. "If you lust after a woman you have already committed adultery with her in your heart." (paraphrase) Just be careful, and don't stress about it. If she is a good lady she won't hold your lack of experience against you.

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

I guess we need to start a kissing school.

I could probally use it...

 

[Ringu]

I could probally use it...

I mean, we can really make a business selling tapes. Or interactive 3D video software to teach "children who can't KISS good" (c) Zoolander

Do you think we'll have enough of a market to sell this stuff?

 

[KristianJ]

If we have a willing few volunteers... I'm not intending to put my hand up quite yet though

 

[Ringu]

Well, I bet we'll find hundreds.

 

[Ginsu]

Does anyone know about guppie kisses? You both pucker your lips and very lightly press...then... it's so cute it's nausiating. hah

 

[Living4Him03]

then how do you know about these kisses Ginsu? lol

If any soldiers/servicemen need some kissing lessons, let me know
hehe j/k j/k