Yes, I agree that is not good. As you pointed out, this is still your best choice at this point.
But I thought they were Christians? Do they say they aren't Christians? Also, aren't the other Christians around even worse? For instance, that church that might tell you to go back to your husband? Or his parents who defended the cannibal inappropriate content? They are Christians, right? The husband himself- he's Christian, right?
But in any case, looking at "people we know" isn't a good way to see correlations - that takes much larger data sets. For instance, everyone I know calls sugary drinks "pop" - yet I would be quite wrong if I thought that everyone in the US called them "pop".
I've heard that, and discussed it with friends of mine who are secular, and they pointed out that it doesn't look like it reflects reality. They are great people, and they were very nice about it.
For instance, when it comes to inappropriate content, it seems that Christians use more inappropriate content than secular people. Here's an article in Christianity today about it. America's Bible Belt states indulge in more online inappropriate content than other less religious states | Christian News on Christian Today
The idea that less religion leads to violence seems to be wrong too. For instance, the US has become a lot more secular in the last 40 years, and overall violent crime has been dropping that whole time, as have murders, etc.
And the same thing shows up when we look at other countries - less Christian countries are not at all more violent than countries with a lot of Christians - in fact, it often seems to go the other way.
http://moses.creighton.edu/JRS/2005/2005-11.pdf
Because corellation is not causation, the real story is surely more complicated. The bottom line to me at least is that we should not suggest that Christians are less violent, less inappropriate content using, that the country is better off being more Christian, or such, because the data simply doesn't support that claim, and it ends up making us look bad.
This is all kinda a tangent from the main point of the thread, which is to help you through this tough time and help you make good choices. I'm glad every time I open this thread to know that you are in a safer, healthier situation for you and your son.
Blessings- Papias