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I have a problem me and my friend have been fighting she met this guy first. And he liked then he met me now he likes me and we have been dating for a couple weeks. She is now mad at me and hates me and l told her l will dump she said no l'm not mad at you and l know she is mad at me. she tries to act nice but it doesn't work at all she never sees me anymore. She is really upset with me with out her l have no one and its making me depressed l have been crying for weeks and its just starting to get worse. I have been crying in my room all day and been eatting less and l'm not the same now l'm going in to big time depresstion someone please help me.
 

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First of all, remember that even if all your friends forsake you, you have a friend in God. He will always be there to help you and guide you if you ask. Read parts of the Bible, perhaps Lamentations or Psalms, for emotional expression. Try not to worry, and do your best at telling your friends how you feel. God bless you!
 
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It's everyone's free will to be with someone or not , and she can't force you not to be with him, nor can your force him to be with you. It's like she is a very selfish person, and she isn't a real friend at all. If she would be your real friend she would have supported your relationship, therefore it's doubtfull you should have her as a friend at all, because she seems to be like a real backstabber. There's plenty of guys out there in the sea for her. And it's not a matter of who sees first who first dates. It's a matter of choise of both of you .

Also i am wondering why you chose to date this guy while you knew she had a huge crush on him. Are you even in love with him, it's really sad you hurted your friends feelings that way. One thing is for certain namely that she will dislike you until you dump him, or either way let the guy tell her that he doesn't really like her and that he liked you from the beginning. And it's really troublesome for you to get out of this, but i would just continue eating, and get yourself some other 'girly' friends who don't mind you dating this guy cuz she's a reall impossible person to begin with, i bet she hated you even before that, and just wants all the guys that you get. Better think of yourself in this case and just date the guy and if she going to complain just say that he chose you, not other way around.
 
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