Help an Agnostic who wishes to find God

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Hi everyone,

I'm an agnostic, which means I am unsure about the existence of God, but to be honest I think that the existence of God is about as likely as the existence of any other God that people believe in, such as Allah, etc.

I love the concept of people going to Heaven and I really do wish I believed in it, so please convince me.

I think the issue I have is that I'm not one to believe something without proof. I've personally read much of the Bible and I don't see any reason to just take the Bible's stories as fact, seeing as nowadays there are much better explanation for creation of the earth and of man.

What troubles me about religion is that it disagrees with much of modern science. For example, we know Earth was created by the accumulation of star dust from an ancient supernova a billion or so years ago, and that humans evolved from ancient species. We also know the Earth is not a mere thousands of years old, but is in fact MUCH older.

If the Bible was true, it seems to me that God would have included these things in it.

What also concerns me is that there seem to be two versions of the Christian God. That from the Old Testament, and that of the New Testament. One is a vengeful and violent God while the other is loving. It seems to me that most people follow the New Testament nowadays but which do we believe?

All these questions scare me away from religion but I've love to see them answered so I can believe. If I believed I would feel much better about life in general.

Help convince me!
 
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Hi there, SeekingAgnostic

One thing I know with all my heart is that the God I serve is very much alive and well. I've had several encounters of the divine kind - some that saved me from dying quite violently. You really can't go wrong with Christianity - it's sort of a "come as you are" party - you don't have to be perfect at all. If you like, you're more than welcome to PM me if you want me to share some testimonies.

I get you on the apparent difference between the account of the creation in Genssis to what science says. Personally, I believe the Big Bang happened right after God said "Let there be light" (Gen 1:3). Also, we don't know how long a time elapsed between the earth being created first, (Gen 1:1) and the first day (Gen 1:5). It could have been a long time indeed.

There is indeed a difference between the old and new Testament - the main thing is that Jesus Christ paid the ultimate price for our sins, which made re-concilliation between man and God possible.

You really don't have anything to lose with Christianity - I can testify to that. When I need help, I ask my Creator - and He always comes through for me - whether it's help with getting a job after being laid off, help with a tough problem or whatever. Christianity is the real deal - I can honestly testify to that.
 
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I've recently been trying to find God myself.
Just believe. Try believing even for a few days. And try praying. Ask God questions.
There are a lot of conflicting statements in the Bible based on what is sin and what is not. I asked God "If there is something you don't want me to do, then tell me". And he has. Yesterday evening my friend offered me a cigarette. While I was smoking it, my hair caught on fire. I'm sorry, but that's a bit freakish.. And that's just one example of the odd things that have happened.
I don't know if these things are strange coincidences or if God is actually trying to tell me something, but I feel like He is.
 
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How do we "Know" That the world was created from "star dust?" Aren't Stars big balls of fire? Has anyone been able to collect Star dust? How do we know what is left over after a supernova? Has anyone witnessed one? Have we collected samples from one? How do we know that the molecular structure of "Star dust" does not change any of the course of billions of years?

Do you get the point I am trying to make? or should I continue? Their are alot of assumptions and faith in any version of creation you choose to believe in. For instance the age of the earth was not set in scripture, it was simply deduced by the genealogies found in scripture. We assume that the records are complete and that the ages of the men recorded were counted in the same way our ages are.

Faith is apart of any belief, because truthfully no one really knows. Just like a few hundred years ago science knew the earth was flat, and that the sun revolved around the earth. To the people who lived their at the time These facts were considered truths. But know we can see them for what they were. Statements of faith based on the available evidence. Which in essence is what any theory really is. No matter how popular it is to believe it.
So if all things are equal then it only boils down to a matter of preference as to which account of creation you want to subscribe to.

I say that to say that God is not an academic activity to be conquered. You will not be able to compare or construct a belief in God the same way as you would with belief in science. Science is constructed to separate itself from the type of faith it takes to believe in God. Scientific "faith" heavily depends on the perception of the tangible. Faith in God depends on one's willingness to seek and accept what is currently beyond one's understandings. Their is Proof to be found, but it is not the irrefutable proof that scientists want. But to the one who seeks that proof it is enough for them. I like to think of it as personalized proof tailored just for you.

This is supported by Luke 11:
5Then he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and he goes to him at midnight and says, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, 6because a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have nothing to set before him.'

7"Then the one inside answers, 'Don't bother me. The door is already locked, and my children are with me in bed. I can't get up and give you anything.' 8I tell you, though he will not get up and give him the bread because he is his friend, yet because of the man's boldness[e] he will get up and give him as much as he needs.
9"So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 11"Which of you fathers, if your son asks for[f] a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"

We Ask Through Prayer

We Seek in places like this forum, and in the bible

We Knock by repeating this process till we get what our heart truly wants.
 
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Continued...

 
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Man cannot convince you of God's existence. The Holy Spirit does. Moses also had questions about God, and sought Him, and found Him. For if we seek God with ALL our heart, we WILL find Him. God looks on the heart, the motives behind it. There is not a different God for the new testament and a different God of the Old Testament. The same God gave His only begotten Son as propitiation for our sins, just as was promised in Genesis. The same God Who walked in a garden in the cool of the day, a long long time ago, with Adam, before the fall. What is horrendous is sin, and the ravages of it. God is holy. That's why the sacrifice of His only begotten Son was required, because the "Sacrifice" had to be spotless, without sin, in order to be the propitiation for our sin, and to re-unite us with a holy God, and to resume walking in a garden, in the cool of the day, with His beloved.

"But if from thence thou shalt seek the LORD thy God, thou shalt find him, if thou seek him with all thy heart and with all thy soul." ~Deuteronomy 4:29
 
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Hi everyone,

I'm an agnostic, which means I am unsure about the existence of God, but to be honest I think that the existence of God is about as likely as the existence of any other God that people believe in, such as Allah, etc.
You think the God of the Bible is as likely as Vishnu, or Shiva, or Zeus? Hmmm...A remark like this suggests you haven't looked very deeply at the nature of the various deities in comparison to the God of the Bible. Anyway, I get what you're saying: The Christian God is just one among many from which you could choose. So, why should you believe He is the One True God, right?

I love the concept of people going to Heaven and I really do wish I believed in it, so please convince me.
Wish I could. God reserves the convincing to Himself, however. I can offer you good reason to believe, but it is God who will convict you of the truth of what I tell you. Like everyone else, you have too many prejudices, too many moral and cultural barriers and/or filters, too many firmly-held presuppositions for the mere transfer of information from me to you to be sufficient to change your mind. Only God can do all that is required to produce in you the fundamental thought-shift and heart transformation that is necessary to believe in Him. Consequently, I would urge you to ask God as sincerely as you're able to reveal Himself to you.

Well, I think you need to go farther back with your inquiry - right to the beginning, in fact. Where did everything come from? Why is there a universe instead of nothing at all? These are the questions I think you really ought to be asking, if you want to find God.

THese are theories you've expressed here, not necessarily hard, proven fact. Why have you adopted these theories over others? Remember, scientific fact is always interpreted. Scientists are constantly taking raw facts of science and telling us what they mean. And they do this in accordance with what their presuppositions are.

If the Bible was true, it seems to me that God would have included these things in it.
Millions of thoughtful, intelligent people have believed in Him without them being included in the Bible.

The God of the OT is the God of NT. He didn't change from one testament to the other. It is only people who have given the Bible merely a cursory inspection, who desire to see God in caricature so that they may feel justified in rejecting Him, who suggest that God is like you describe above. God is merciful, just, holy, compassionate, and gracious in both the OT and NT. His jealousy over His own, His holy hatred of sin, His wrath, and judgment are consistent throughout the entire length of Scripture.

All these questions scare me away from religion but I've love to see them answered so I can believe. If I believed I would feel much better about life in general.
Yes, doubtless you would feel better. But this isn't, by any means, the sole reason why one should believe.

Selah.
 
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If you are looking for “scientific proof” to the existence of God there is none and never will be on this earth. The reason God remains hidden to the skeptic and is never beyond the shadow of all doubt, is because of the need man has for faith in helping man to fulfill His objective.

You say: “there are much better explanations”, will not really. The modern scientist theory now is the universe had a start, but how something could start from nothing is not even logical. There is all the fine toning of the universe that makes it highly unlikely (impossible) to have ever happened. There is also the huge problem of life getting started. After you have life there is at least evolution as a mechanism for change, but pure chemicals do not “evolve” so there is no mechanism for chemicals to ever become alive and science is showing that DNA life had to start shortly after the first liquid water remained on earth, which seems impossible.

All scripture can be resolved, but you have to keep the objectives in mind to understand why these things happened.

First, God is doing what He can to help you first and foremost want to trust in His existence (not know but trust). If you do not really want to know then knowing would be detrimental to you and God does not want to do that to you. If you want to know “the concept” because it sound nice, that is not a good reason and will not make a real change in your life. If you feel the burden of your transgressions (the hurt you have caused others) on your conscience or want to be lifted from your pit and want relief from that burden.

God is not trying to get something from you but give something (the greatest power in all universes) to you.
 
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There are Christians that believe these things as well. You should check out the Theistic Evolution forum under General Theology.


It can be difficult to understand but God is the same throughout the Old and New Testaments. Maybe this will help: Why is God so different in the Old Testament than He is in the New Testament?
 
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The summation all the seeming coincidences in my life convinced me of God's existence. Just sit down over all the life changing things...good and bad...that have happened and retrace how you have become who you are...that's where I found God.
 
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First, religion does agree with modern science. Please visit www.reasons.org, www.creation.com. Science is just men interpreting what God has done.

I suggest you research the credibility of the bible concerning overwhelming evidence which is very high even though it’s a spiritual decision first.
Visit: www.TheBibleProofBook.com, (you will need acrobat reader for this), read The Evidence That Demands A Verdict by Josh McDowell a former agnostic- (its overwhelming circumstantial evidence of bible) and Examine the Evidence by Muncaster a former athiest/The Case for Christ and The Real Jesus by Lee Strobel a former athiest. Christiananswers.net, www.equip.org (articles), http://www.gotquestions.org/

500 eye witnesses of Jesus Resurrection
http://www.leaderu.com/everystudent/easter/articles/josh2.html

http://www.emjc3.com/proof/ChristianityIsAFactYouCanProveIt.pdf 
http://www.emjc3.com/prophecy101.htm
http://www.emjc3.com/proof/WhyTheBibleIs100PercentAccurate.pdf
http://www.emjc3.com/DisprovingEvolutionInUnder1000Words.html

***Christian concept, Are you a good person? www.livingwaters.com/good/
 
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It isn’t religion but a real relationship with Jesus. I have never loved anyone so much, nor has anyone ever done so much for me.
John, I do believe that soon your life will be different somehow… better than it’s been in a while. God bless you today, John. I’ll be checking in if you need to ask anything else.
 
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Anyone who calls on the name of Jesus will be saved. Allah is a God that the proponents of Islam believe in. It is not the God of the bible. God is a God of judgment and He gave people fair warning by the prophets in the past. He also had to burn like a consuming fire against wickedness, when it got out of control.

One point about believing is that it opens the door to understanding God's word. Jesus Christ takes away the veil of the old testament. We are able to go from glory to glory and to really be the light that shines in a dark place without the veil that Moses had to wear over His shining face when He was with God on mount Sinai.

Say this prayer: Lord Jesus, I have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I have tried to be a good person on my own merits and fail time and time again. I want to know that you are real by the fact that if any two agree on anything it will be done by the Father in heaven. Show yourself to me in a powerful way. Give me your Holy Spirit, your comforter and counselor that leads me into all truth. Wash me in the blood of Jesus so that I may stand before you perfect on Jesus holy merits and not my own. I sincerely want to come into your fold, the body of Christ. Lead my steps, bring me to a place that preaches your word and give me divine appointments. I trust you to lead me in the path of righteousness and still waters, restore my soul. In Jesus name. Amen.
 
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Thanks for the comments everyone.

I can't help to notice that so many of you are misinformed about things such as the formation of the solar system, the beginning of life, and evolution. It's kind of disconcerting when people's arguments for God cite false science as backing.

The temperature of the earth has more to do with its atmosphere than the sun (the greenhouse effect), the universe can exist with the laws of physics which allow us to exist simply because if we it didn't we wouldn't be here to see it, procreating molecules WILL eventually form on one of billions of planets in the universe (we inevitably will exist on one of them), and evolution does not require "missing links", it happens very gradually and only small changes happen over tens of millions of years. There are no real missing links, the creatures flow into each other over millions and millions of years of natural selection.

With that said, I would like to point out that I don't KNOW that those theories are true and I don't absolutely believe them to be facts. I think that they could definitely be wrong, but I find them to be more acceptable than, say, Scientologist beliefs, because science is falsifiable. Science can be TESTED and does not have to be taken without proof.

I'm also curious how a Christian could believe in evolution. If they did, they would believe that humans evolved from simple organisms over millions and millions of years, which would conflict with the idea that God created man in his image, and that earth was created in a relatively short timespan.

Also, how can Christians believe that humans are created in God's image when we share 98% the same as a chimpanzee's? Why are there fossilized Neanderthals, etc, that look very similar to humans and also predate humans? How can Christians refute carbon dating which proves the Earth is much older than said in the Bible, and that dinosaurs and other ancient species existed long before humans?

I can accept the possibility that a God created the laws of physics and just let the universe play out, but that theory is no different than having no creator at all and doesn't really answers any questions.
 
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Actually that position is Open Theism. It answers a lot of questions, and it is a start.
 
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Actually that position is Open Theism. It answers a lot of questions, and it is a start.
I don't believe that for certain (I don't believe anything ABSOLUTELY), but I am open to it.

However, I am just as open to the idea that our universe is merely a very advanced computer simulation.
 
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The temperature of the earth has more to do with its atmosphere than the sun (the greenhouse effect),

Uh, I'm pretty sure that if the sun were any closer, we'd fry and if it were much farther away, we'd freeze. This has been common knowledge for a long time. It makes your comment above about the Earth's temperature a little odd...

the universe can exist with the laws of physics which allow us to exist simply because if we it didn't we wouldn't be here to see it,

Hmmm...The universe cannot have created itself, if this is what you're suggesting. The idea that it could is logically incoherent - as well as scientifically impossible.

procreating molecules WILL eventually form on one of billions of planets in the universe (we inevitably will exist on one of them),

Procreating molecules? What are you talking about?

and evolution does not require "missing links", it happens very gradually and only small changes happen over tens of millions of years.

Yes, it does.

There are no real missing links, the creatures flow into each other over millions and millions of years of natural selection.

Yes, this is the theory - but there is precious little evidence for it.

With that said, I would like to point out that I don't KNOW that those theories are true and I don't absolutely believe them to be facts.

Well, that's a relief!

I think that they could definitely be wrong, but I find them to be more acceptable than, say, Scientologist beliefs, because science is falsifiable. Science can be TESTED and does not have to be taken without proof.

It sounds here like you're saying you'd believe a plausible lie over an implausible one.


Yes...it would, wouldn't it?

Also, how can Christians believe that humans are created in God's image when we share 98% the same as a chimpanzee's?

Our similarities to God are not biological in nature. God is Spirit, the Bible says. Consequently, we understand that when the Bible tells us we are made in God's image, it means this figuratively. We are like God insofar as we possess self-awareness, a conscience, the capacity to love, to admire beauty, etc.


Answers in Genesis - Creation, Evolution, Christian Apologetics
The Institute for Creation Research

I can accept the possibility that a God created the laws of physics and just let the universe play out, but that theory is no different than having no creator at all and doesn't really answers any questions.

Quite right.

Selah.
 
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Also, how do I get to know God? Is there a way of communicating with Him directly?
 
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