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I discovered the concept of Health at Every Size a couple of months ago, and am so glad that I did. I had started thinking similarly, before that, but it really helped to have my vague intuitions put into words, with confirmation that yes, this is a thing, and many people live happily and healthily this way.
The basic ideas of HAES are
1. Weight and health are two completely different things, just like hair color and health. Neither of them have any bearing on the other. There are perfectly healthy fat people and very unhealthy thin people.
2. You have the right to prioritize your physical and mental health any way you like, set your own goals, and pursue those goals however you determine is best.
3. Any goals you have, anything you'd like to do, you can began working toward and (and possibly achieve) in the body you have now.
When I was younger, I would regularly think, "I'd like to do X, but I don't know if I can at my weight. I should lose some weight so I can." Then I'd lose 5-10 pounds, plateau, try harder, fail to break out of the plateau, think I couldn't make it and give up.
Now I can just...do what I want. I took up martial arts--weighing about 200 lbs, started lifting weights, just started plyometrics, eat a lot better than I used to (but still have treats when I want--it's just that I want them less now that I've given myself permission to have them) have lowered my fasting blood sugar (and resting heart rate and blood pressure), improved my strength and endurance.... and still weigh about 200 lbs.
But I'm healthier and happier with who I am, and that's awesome.
If you're interested in reading more, I really love this woman's blog
The basic ideas of HAES are
1. Weight and health are two completely different things, just like hair color and health. Neither of them have any bearing on the other. There are perfectly healthy fat people and very unhealthy thin people.
2. You have the right to prioritize your physical and mental health any way you like, set your own goals, and pursue those goals however you determine is best.
3. Any goals you have, anything you'd like to do, you can began working toward and (and possibly achieve) in the body you have now.
When I was younger, I would regularly think, "I'd like to do X, but I don't know if I can at my weight. I should lose some weight so I can." Then I'd lose 5-10 pounds, plateau, try harder, fail to break out of the plateau, think I couldn't make it and give up.
Now I can just...do what I want. I took up martial arts--weighing about 200 lbs, started lifting weights, just started plyometrics, eat a lot better than I used to (but still have treats when I want--it's just that I want them less now that I've given myself permission to have them) have lowered my fasting blood sugar (and resting heart rate and blood pressure), improved my strength and endurance.... and still weigh about 200 lbs.
But I'm healthier and happier with who I am, and that's awesome.
If you're interested in reading more, I really love this woman's blog
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