Hard paying in front of someone else?

[SolLeks]

Hey guys,

Just wanted some advice here. I finding it really difficult and awkward to genuinely pray in front of someone else. Even if I really know the person well and theyere the closest or one of the closest people to me. It always becomes just so awkward and I can hardly get my words out... So I've been avoiding going to prayer meetings etc in church.

This happen to anyone else? Any advice on how to overcome it?

 

[SolLeks]

I've always been like this btw, since becoming a christian.

 

[Allycat]

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[Catherineanne]

Hey guys,

Just wanted some advice here. I finding it really difficult and awkward to genuinely pray in front of someone else. Even if I really know the person well and theyere the closest or one of the closest people to me. It always becomes just so awkward and I can hardly get my words out... So I've been avoiding going to prayer meetings etc in church.

This happen to anyone else? Any advice on how to overcome it?

If you can't do it, then don't do it. We are to pray as we can, not as we can't. I have never been able to pray out loud in company.

Explain to your minister that you prefer to pray silently, and I am sure he or she will understand. But don't avoid the prayer meetings; they are for your benefit.

 

[retlaw]

Hey guys,

Just wanted some advice here. I finding it really difficult and awkward to genuinely pray in front of someone else. Even if I really know the person well and theyere the closest or one of the closest people to me. It always becomes just so awkward and I can hardly get my words out... So I've been avoiding going to prayer meetings etc in church.

This happen to anyone else? Any advice on how to overcome it?

I think in modern society there is a stigma about anyone praying in public. Like you must be crazy to do that. A thousand years ago this wouldn't be out of place. Funny how the more modern we get the dumber we get as a species.

The power of prayer comes from God obviously, but as a Christian tapping that power is a matter of faith, faith comes by doing it and seeing the results. Its not something you're going to be good at immediately. Its something that I'm working on myself. I haven't even scratched the surface yet. But I am working on it.

 

[mortalministries]

I think in modern society there is a stigma about anyone praying in public. Like you must be crazy to do that. A thousand years ago this wouldn't be out of place. Funny how the more modern we get the dumber we get as a species.

The power of prayer comes from God obviously, but as a Christian tapping that power is a matter of faith, faith comes by doing it and seeing the results. Its not something you're going to be good at immediately. Its something that I'm working on myself. I haven't even scratched the surface yet. But I am working on it.

I actually believe that faith is when u believe but dont see results cuz then one if really tested.
Prayer is just talking to God. in a relationship with God, u gotta talk to him Talking to him in public shouldnt be that bad. I do it all the time. Especially with my non Christian friends

 

[F8vlogger]

I also have a hard time, often it takes me awhile to think of what I want to say because i get nervous.

I try to slow down, and remember that God will not judge me, and I try to just pray with knowing that.

 

[mortalministries]

Yea also pray in knowing that other ppl will not judge u

 

[jeremymahurin]

It is simply a fear of saying something stupid or stumbling over your words. Realize that you are talking to God, not all the people around you. Also, the people around you at prayer meetings want to see you advance in your prayer life, not criticize you for your mistake (if you make one). When I was asked to lead service in our church, I was extremely nervous and afraid I would make a mistake. The greatest freedom came when I did mess up really bad and my life did not come to a screeching halt. People were there to support me, not destroy me.

 

[Steven Knoll]

When someone prays in front of me, I will never judge them for eloquence or wordiness, but rather based on the feelings of their heart. God does the same, and that's all that matters. Fear God, not man, in other words. With God's help, I'm sure you can overcome the fear!

 

[Rora]

I have a had time praying in public too so I rarely pray out loud. My fiance is wonderful with public prayers so thankfully he typically delievers most prayers/blessings.

I will be praying for you!

 

[tturt]

Haven't read any of the responses but you might want to try - speak your prayers while praying alone.