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One option whilst sneaky, would attempt a transfer to a different city - or state. It would limit contact a lot more.
Ask her if she would be willing to change phone numbers?
I haven't been through anything like this in a marriage sense, but I have from a dating perspective. Whilst engaged, there were times I"d still talk to the ex-bf (who still happened to be my best friend - and my fiances) and I'd still see him about every 2 months. When the contact was severely limited (I cut it off and made sure I only saw him with hubby there) my feelings increased for my hubby again, and constantly decreased for the ex til they disappeared.
I now see him and talk to him without problems, but contact is still limited somewhat.
Love is a tricky emotion - she may want to love you, but struggles to 'feel' it. Whilst it may be the last thing on your mind currently, romance may not go a miss. Some red roses when you get home from work, candlelit dinner, help around the house, take her out for a lovely dessert, vacation (even 1 night one without focusing on sex), go for a hike, whatever.
Like I said, I'm not that experienced but I hope this helped in some ways.
Ask her if she would be willing to change phone numbers?
I haven't been through anything like this in a marriage sense, but I have from a dating perspective. Whilst engaged, there were times I"d still talk to the ex-bf (who still happened to be my best friend - and my fiances) and I'd still see him about every 2 months. When the contact was severely limited (I cut it off and made sure I only saw him with hubby there) my feelings increased for my hubby again, and constantly decreased for the ex til they disappeared.
I now see him and talk to him without problems, but contact is still limited somewhat.
Love is a tricky emotion - she may want to love you, but struggles to 'feel' it. Whilst it may be the last thing on your mind currently, romance may not go a miss. Some red roses when you get home from work, candlelit dinner, help around the house, take her out for a lovely dessert, vacation (even 1 night one without focusing on sex), go for a hike, whatever.
Like I said, I'm not that experienced but I hope this helped in some ways.
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