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Lunch Time Pilates

This is a mat based class perfect to fit into a lunch break or to do after work to help stretch and lengthen through the body, particularly after long periods of sitting during the day, and strengthening and engage your pelvic floor and core stability muscles. The class is suitable for most levels, but please always work to a level that you feel comfortable with.

 
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Creative Success

In this essay I explore how you can break through your creative blocks and start creating your dream work.

Note: Must view on YouTube.

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Napa Modern Farmhouse and Vineyard

Private and secluded, yet accessible to and from the greater San Francisco Bay Area, Napa, Yountville, St. Helena and Calistoga, this property video is a glimpse into mental images of your own 6+/- acre vineyard, newly completed in 2017 luxury residence. It's MTV Cribs for the wine enthusiast.

 
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How to Be Cozy at Home

Today I'm sharing all my tips for hygge at home, and how to be cozy and ways to actually enjoy winter by living the Danish way. Hygge is defined as "a quality of coziness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment or well-being" which is something we all need during winter, but especially while a lot of us are still in lockdown. This video involves a lot of reading, baking, lighting candles, winter slow living and being as cozy as possible.

 
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DIY Early 19th Century Makeup

Making cosmetic boxes, 2 kinds of rouge and a harmless rice powder. These recipes come from the 1811 publication The Mirror of Graces. For better or for worse this is what it recommended.

 
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3 Healthy Salads for Weight Loss

Vegan Potato Salad, Cabbage Salad, and Mixed Bean Salad

Have you ever felt guilty for eating something? Delivery food and junk food may taste good in your mouth, but are not always followed by pleasant consequences. As most of them are high in calories, it sometimes makes you worried about your weight and even regretful.

Then, how about trying some light and tasty salad in the summer? These three salad recipes, all low in calories, provide you with tasty meals that you can enjoy without being concerned about your weight. Three summer salads which help you feel lighter and healthier.

 
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I don't want to be spoon-fed other people's perceptions. —@Tone

Yesterday was very interesting. I spend the majority of my time in the Single's forum. But I ventured a little further. The comment I quoted articulated my experiences. It wasn't the usual discourse or idea exchange. There was a demonstrative want to alter perceptions and the methods used were shocking. Guilt, shame, accusations, and so on. How did we get here?

God provided the comeback. I woke this morning to powerful messages nestled at the top of my feed. They were impossible to miss and I shared a couple. It reinforced the page He wants me on. Not what the world thinks or a stranger's idea.

This is My benchmark for you bella and that's all that matters.

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There's a danger of surrounding yourself with people with limited thinking. They can't see beyond themselves. They're apt to view you in a similar light. They're the first to tell you no, it can't be done, or that's too much. They don't believe in possibilities.

They quote the scriptures and go through the motions. But for a people who believe in an Omnipotent, Omnipresent, and Omniscient God; there's a lot of limited thinking in Christian circles.

I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth. —Psalm 121:1-2

Before you throw in the towel you'd better check with Him. Don't ask your neighbor. Talk to God first. You need His benchmark. That's the standard you're chasing. Not the measure the world assigns.

Once you discover His standard find others who feel the same and walk with them. You'll accomplish great things in the right company. You need people who believe in you and know all things are possible through Him. And it isn't a quote. It's their reality.

I knew something broke open in the heavenlies. I felt the shift and elevation. I noticed the influx when I began admitting certain things openly. But I didn't imagine He'd turn up the volume. That's what He's done.

No wonder I'm craving certain music and acknowledging a vibe I hadn't felt for awhile. He's stoking the hunger inside of me. It isn't raging as it has in the past. I've slowed my pace. That's the reason I'm struggling. I'm not accustomed to this tempo.

I reduced my output to accommodate school. But God didn't tell me to do that. He can quicken the pace if He wants. I don't have to stop. I need to tune my ear to the Metronome and stay with Him.

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How fast. How far. How high. Take the limit off yourself.

What a wonderful reminder. As the title says...It Was Meant 2 B.
 
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Why You Never Have Enough Time

Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us, and establish the work of our hands upon us; yes, establish the work of our hands! —Psalm 90:17

It is not that we have a short space of time, but that we waste much of it —Seneca

As I explore the feelings of inadequacy that I have for myself, I feel like I'm peeling away the layers and finding all of kinds of things I wasn't expecting. Maybe even my focus on structure and productivity is a distraction from something even deeper, something even more valuable that I should be paying closer attention to: the present moment.

 
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Stovetop Doughnuts

Join us as we cook up some (American-style) donuts on the hot plates of the original Homewood Heritage stove in our rural New Zealand farm kitchen - and then take some of this fresh home baking next door to share at Aunty Grace's (where you get to meet the TWO cute little additions to her family!).

After doughnuts and hot chocolate (with Janie's homemade marshmallow), Granny tries teaching us how to spin wool (yarn) the old-fashioned way!

 
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than it took to blossom. —Elizabeth Appell


I decided to post the videos a little earlier and opened YouTube to see what I'd find. There was a message about having what you want by someone I wasn't familiar with. I clicked on it and began to listen. She blew me away. It was heartfelt and a little sad. She shared the challenges of creating content and the fear of losing the thing she loved.

I wanted to post it but I shy away from messages with profanity. I make exceptions now and then if its powerful and others will benefit. But I knew it would get dinged so I didn't. By the time I reached the end I felt comforted and inspired. There was a song in the background I really liked. She mentioned the artist and I looked up the lyrics.

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There was a line that stood out in the video and the words were pretty. But I never expected the watershed that would follow when I played it. As I listened to the song my mind recalled the last few weeks and the conversations I had with another. I reflected on his willingness to listen no matter the subject. I worked thoughts and feelings and shared them openly. And he never complained.

I encouraged him recently to shift his discourse on social media. To show some light and the tone he used in the past when we ran in the same circles. Few would ask an atheist where's the light or encourage them to share their hearts. But I'm allowed to say it without upset. He knows where I'm coming from.

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As the song played and he asked:

Who am I, darling to you?
Who am I?
To tell you stories of mine
Who am I?

Who am I, darling for you?
Who am I?
To be your burden in time, lonely
Who am I, to you?


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My heart began to jerk and the truth hit immediately. He cares for me. He truly cares for me. I began to cry. I don't know why I wept but then again I do. That's why he allows me to come and unburden myself, share a laugh, a song, or whatever's on my mind.

All this time I thought I was helping him; he's been helping me in return. Quietly...patiently...lovingly enduring my presence. Maybe that's his thank you for all I've done. I don't know. But its humbling.
 
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Since many of these posts kindle film memories in me, here's a sweet film from 1959 by Ozu that captures the time as well as showcasing uniquely Japanese home design (I remember it as much for the architecture/set design as anything):

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Since many of these posts kindle film memories in me, here's a sweet film from 1959 by Ozu that captures the time as well as showcasing uniquely Japanese home design (I remember it as much for the architecture/set design as anything):

Wow, thank you for sharing! I'm not familiar with it but the images look sweet. I'll look it up. :)
 
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Cottagecore Night Routine

For today's video, I wanted it to be a mix of two of my favorite aesthetics. Cottagecore (of course) and vintage Disney fairy tale. I like Disney as much as anyone, but I'm an absolute sucker for the romantic vintage Disney vibes specifically (mainly, the music).

Please keep in mind, this is not my regular night routine. This is a routine that I came up with based on the aesthetics. I do enjoy all the activities (baking, reading, picnics in the mountains, making tea, taking bubble baths, etc..) but I definitely don't usually have time to do them all every night. If you watch my Instagram stories, you know that my editing nights look much different than this video. But I still hope you enjoy it nonetheless :)

 
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