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Tips: Good Conversation Starters

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1. Begin with a Simple Greeting A friendly “Hello” or “How are you today?” is a great way to start.

People appreciate kindness and openness, which can set the tone for deeper dialogue.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions Encourage the other person to share more by asking questions that can’t be answered with a simple “yes” or “no.”
For example:

○ “What has been on your mind lately?”

○ “How do you find peace during stressful times?”

○ “What’s something you’re grateful for today?”

3. Look for Natural Opportunities Conversations can often flow naturally from shared experiences or observations.

If you’re at a coffee shop, you might say, “This place has such a peaceful atmosphere.

Do you have a favorite spot to unwind?”

4. Introduce Faith Gently Transition to faith topics by asking questions like:

○ “Do you have a church you like to attend?”

○ “Have you ever thought about how faith impacts your life?”

○ “Can I share something that really encouraged me in my faith journey?”

5. Offer Prayer If the opportunity arises, offer to pray with or for the person.

For example, “It sounds like you’re going through a lot. Would it be okay if I prayed with you about this?”

6. Listen More Than You Speak Demonstrating genuine interest by actively listening is key.

People are more likely to open up when they feel heard and respected.

Remember, good conversations are built on trust, empathy, and love.

By being present, asking thoughtful questions, and gently introducing faith, you can create opportunities to share the hope and joy of the Gospel.

This evangelization tip is brought to you by St. Paul Street Evangelization.

For more resources and ideas

visit www.streetevangelization.com

https://streetevangelization.com/wp...C4BAD0I0K9rQ:d1AWzU267+MqCAOLOomjeovuhZd6EkGR
 
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Question to person - How do you receive God's free gift of Eternal Life?

If given a works answer or a i hope i have lived a good life, I do not know, etc..

Then i would ask would you like to know what The Bibles states. On How to receive God's free gift of Eternal Life.

If they say yes, then i simply say believe in Jesus for Eternal Life and at the very moment of belief in Jesus you receive God's permanent and free gift of Eternal Life.
 
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1. Begin with a Simple Greeting A friendly “Hello” or “How are you today?” is a great way to start.

People appreciate kindness and openness, which can set the tone for deeper dialogue.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions Encourage the other person to share more by asking questions that can’t be answered with a simple “yes” or “no.”
For example:

○ “What has been on your mind lately?”

○ “How do you find peace during stressful times?”

○ “What’s something you’re grateful for today?”

3. Look for Natural Opportunities Conversations can often flow naturally from shared experiences or observations.

If you’re at a coffee shop, you might say, “This place has such a peaceful atmosphere.

Do you have a favorite spot to unwind?”

4. Introduce Faith Gently Transition to faith topics by asking questions like:

○ “Do you have a church you like to attend?”

○ “Have you ever thought about how faith impacts your life?”

○ “Can I share something that really encouraged me in my faith journey?”

5. Offer Prayer If the opportunity arises, offer to pray with or for the person.

For example, “It sounds like you’re going through a lot. Would it be okay if I prayed with you about this?”

6. Listen More Than You Speak Demonstrating genuine interest by actively listening is key.

People are more likely to open up when they feel heard and respected.

Remember, good conversations are built on trust, empathy, and love.

By being present, asking thoughtful questions, and gently introducing faith, you can create opportunities to share the hope and joy of the Gospel.

This evangelization tip is brought to you by St. Paul Street Evangelization.

For more resources and ideas
Thank you for the tips and the URL for St. Paul Street Evangelization.
 
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Conversation is a bit monotous though - L4W - Woof Woof.

Dog 2 - Woof Woof...

Dog 3 - Woof!

L42 - Woof!! Woof!! Grrr!!!

Dog 2 - Woof?

Dog 3 - Woof, woof, woof, woof...

Mind you, it's not what you say - it's how you say it!:preach:
 
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Good topic.

Often Mondays people will ask 'what did you did this past weekend?' Including that you went to church can be a great way to bring up faith topics.
 
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Conversation starters are helpful. But eventually people need to understand why they need a Saviour. Most of us assume we’re basically good. Scripture shows that God’s law reveals our sin, and the wages of sin is death. When someone sees that they fall short — as we all do — the cross suddenly makes sense.
After someone professes faith, it’s important to connect them with a church. Genuine faith produces a new direction of life. We won’t be perfect, but over time we grow in honouring God. A believer may struggle with sin, but they won’t be comfortable living in it. Sanctification is a lifelong work of God’s grace.

NOTE: Belief has actions with it. Those who simply say they believe in Jesus for Eternal Life and then continue in sin are in big trouble. They are fooling themselves. So, it is good to point out that they should desire to live in a Holy manner. The Bible says that "Those who have they hope fixed on Him, purify themselves, just as He is pure."
 
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Conversation starters are helpful. But eventually people need to understand why they need a Saviour. Most of us assume we’re basically good. Scripture shows that God’s law reveals our sin, and the wages of sin is death. When someone sees that they fall short, as we all do, the cross suddenly makes sense.
After someone professes faith, it’s important to connect them with a church. Genuine faith produces a new direction of life. We won’t be perfect, but over time we grow in honouring God. A believer may struggle with sin, but they won’t be comfortable living in it. Sanctification is a lifelong work of God’s grace.
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Question to person - How do you receive God's free gift of Eternal Life?

If given a works answer or a i hope i have lived a good life, I do not know, etc..

Then i would ask would you like to know what The Bibles states. On How to receive God's free gift of Eternal Life.

If they say yes, then i simply say believe in Jesus for Eternal Life and at the very moment of belief in Jesus you receive God's permanent and free gift of Eternal Life.
Belief has actions with it. Those who simply say they believe in Jesus for Eternal Life and then continue in sin are in big trouble. They are fooling themselves. So, it is good to point out that they should desire to live in a Holy manner. The Bible says that "Those who have they hope fixed on Him, purify themselves, just as He is pure."
 
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