That's a deflection, but let's roll with it. (you had better learn how to admit when you are wrong before you get married - that's 40+ years of marriage advising you)
The Damnationists changed the Bible translation from its original meaning. The Latin church had both a doctrinal agenda and poor skills with NT Greek employed in the translation work. We are working to correct this issue, you are working to continue the cover-up. (HellGate)
Back to the original discussion. You have no grounds for shunning us.
Philippians 2:1-4
Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.