OK, So Every day I wake up I have nothing and no one.
Divorced and cant see my kids and have no one to wake up to and no one to buy things for and no one to go to church with and every day starting to find I do not care any more.
And the funny thing is , like when I was a kid, I just do not care if I live or die.
Is that something I should worry about?
Because to be honest I don't worry about living or death, Sometimes I feel like death would be welcome, a welcome escape from my reality. In the past I would play like I might commit suicide to get my way, but this is different, this is real and i'm not afraid to die. And i'm not thinking about suicide but am wanting a way out of my stupid existence.
You have heard of many who have a bad life, or have a horrible life, ok, ok, I have no life, nothing. I am wishing I had a bad life over no life.
So I spend my days preaching the word of God and the love of Jesus and how he died for us.
I'm finding this to be fulfilling but my life is still void. At least I could have some friends every day to talk to, to look forward to say hi and who are concerned for me, but nothing.
I meet a lot of people on here who talk for awhile but then loose interest for some reason or another and stop responding, I guess there busy, and that's ok, at least they have some sort of life, I'm glade for them.
Am i the only one? is there others who fell the same as I?
Looking for advise, not for others to pity me or fell bad for me, take that pity party out of here lol.
Looking for advise, not for others to pity me or fell bad for me, take that pity party out of here lol.
OK, So Every day I wake up I have nothing and no one.
And the funny thing is , like when I was a kid, I just do not care if I live or die.
Is that something I should worry about?
And i'm not thinking about suicide but am wanting a way out of my stupid existence.
At least I could have some friends every day to talk to, to look forward to say hi and who are concerned for me, but nothing.
Am i the only one? is there others who fell the same as I?
Looking for advise, not for others to pity me or fell bad for me..
I have no friends, just employees who work for me lol.
God is with you. Offer up your sufferings to God.
I myself know what it is like to be alone. Its awful.
Try and be strong friend. We are all one family here.
God bless you
OK so you've asked for people not to pity you. Fair enough. I'll seek to offer you none. Not all people can take advise for they can't get their minds off themselves long enough to receive it. So tell me....what type of person are you?
I agree you've had some problems in life. And yes problems especially if prolonged can cause one to loose heart and surrender to apathy. You're the only one yeah or nay that can flip the switch to set forth a positive agenda for happiness. I can't do it for you. Neither can anybody else on here. You still don't wan't someone taking to you in a sympathetic way? I mean I'm willing to if you want me too but if not I'll just continue.
I thought you said you're a Christian? God the Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit aren't someone?
Maybe not something you should worry about but something rather you should make a serious adjustment in the way that you think. If your time left on the Earth meant nothing more than being a strength to others and to advance the Kingdom of God shouldn't that right there be a motivation not to want to give up on life.
It's not a stupid existence if you're wanting to advance the Kingdom of God. The truth of the matter is many you perceive have all things going well for them if they're not serving God they're the ones who have a stupid existence. Every day you can make you life count for something. Will you?
You don't think that characters like Joseph in the Old Testament didn't feel like that when he was sold into slavery? Did it stay like that forever? No but it might have if he would have kept focus on himself rather than God. Again remember Daniel you said you didn't want NO pity but just clear plain advice.
By no means Daniel. There are multitudes which turn inwardly assessing how all circumstances effect them. You give joy to others and keep your focus that way then guess who comes knocking on your door. His name is The Excitement of Life! Don't worry! He'll find you.
As you see I tried not to do that so I hope you liked my post. I will break down and say one thing however I feel its sad that you had a divorce and can't see your kids. But even with that one has to set forth an agenda to maybe somehow change that situation if possibly or lock into whatever positive agenda God can give you. And he will.
If you're a Christian like you say, your life is bought with a price...by the precious blood of Jesus. Sorry but you have no right to say your life is meaningless or has to stay that way. There's nothing meaningless about one sharing the love of God in them and seeking to do his will.
Now wouldn't it be funny if one of your employees came on here and said THEY didn't have any friends? So here the two of you were working side by side wanting the same thing and you weren't even aware of it.
Divorced and cant see my kids
I am a man over 40 who is divorced, no one wants a friend who is a man over 40
I turned 40 this year so being in my 40's is still a new experience for me but it does feel sort of odd to think i will never be in my 30's ever again. Anyway a few things stood out in your posts
Same. I lost custody 6 months ago, although i can see them once a fortnight, but that's it.
I also have trouble making friends but not sure it its because i am a man over 40 because i've always had trouble with it.
I read somewhere once that men tend to be loners more than women because they don't have a social network of friends the same way women do. The more i think about it, aside from my family which i've lost now anyway, i guess i have always been a bit of a loner.
I find it hypocritical how I need to be the start in a friendship Becouse I'm the one in need.
Mabie I'm wrong here but the body of Jesus is suppose to run to me and be my family in time of need. So all my family are hypocrites who truly do not serve God and this frightened me to learn.
OK, So Every day I wake up I have nothing and no one.
Divorced and cant see my kids and have no one to wake up to and no one to buy things for and no one to go to church with and every day starting to find I do not care any more.
And the funny thing is , like when I was a kid, I just do not care if I live or die.
Is that something I should worry about?
Because to be honest I don't worry about living or death, Sometimes I feel like death would be welcome, a welcome escape from my reality. In the past I would play like I might commit suicide to get my way, but this is different, this is real and i'm not afraid to die. And i'm not thinking about suicide but am wanting a way out of my stupid existence.
You have heard of many who have a bad life, or have a horrible life, ok, ok, I have no life, nothing. I am wishing I had a bad life over no life.
So I spend my days preaching the word of God and the love of Jesus and how he died for us.
I'm finding this to be fulfilling but my life is still void. At least I could have some friends every day to talk to, to look forward to say hi and who are concerned for me, but nothing.
I meet a lot of people on here who talk for awhile but then loose interest for some reason or another and stop responding, I guess there busy, and that's ok, at least they have some sort of life, I'm glade for them.
Am i the only one? is there others who fell the same as I?
Looking for advise, not for others to pity me or fell bad for me, take that pity party out of here lol.
I'm new to this site and feeling some of the same things you do. I'm trying hard to take negative thoughts captive. Get in touch if you would like a consistent pen-pal and friendly support.
God bless you!
I'm glad you're still here. Are you feeling better these days? I'll pray for you; please pray for me!
Thanks for your prayers!
May I ask what you have hope for - better times in this life, or peace and joy when we finally get to be with God in heaven?
My hope is not to be alone, All my life that has been my biggest fear, and here I am, settling into loneliness. Yes, I have people who are around me, but they do not get me or know me. Yes, I know others but they do not touch me or hold me or even hug me.
I forget what it feels like to be touched to be honest.
If the lord God would touch me and some times he does, it helps.
But to have that human connection, there is nothing like it while we are alive.
I wish i was in heaven with God so I did not fell this way every day, It would be easier.
I once was afraid to die, now, I welcome it.
Don't get me wrong, I love others and life, but not in the state i'm in.
Its a tired hopeless feeling. I'm 47, fit, good job, well, at least as well as I can be, able, but, the truth is.
No one wants me,
Now don't get me wrong here, i'm not complaining, not crying about it, not complaining to much.
Just needed others understanding to help my mental state.
Edit, im 46, lol.