Girl Problems...HELP!

[Confuscious]

I have had a horrible problem on my chest for over 3 months now..and i need to get it off my chest...its a bit late because today everything went wrong in my relationship - even though it was my own fault i feel so bad because of everyone i have hurt and affected...
I guess starting from the start would make things alot easier to explain my situation;
Around 3 months ago after a relationship with my girlfreind Ashleigh lasting 4 months before that, we had a sports carnival everything was going fine until about lunch time...i felt a sudden wave of..i dunno what...but i was attracted to her best freind - and unfortunately i had been given her email address the day before in art class and contacted her the next night (the beginning of the long weekend)...
That long weekend me and my gf's bestfriend chatted on msn for over 24 hours total over three days and i think we got really close...uncomfortably close for me being taken by her best freind.
Anyways 2 months later we continued to chat on msn and i let slip that " I loved her" and thats what began the whole problem...we got even closer and i think i began to neglect being with my girlfreind...we started to not get along anymore...we had less and less in common and everything began to come between us.
And finally on the holidays i did something which completely destroyed my relationship, i rode 40 k's on bike to go see her cause she lives out of town and we chatted and got along alot better than my girlfreind and i ever did and i kissed her completely out of impulse..i dont even know why i did it, it just happened
On the friday before school went back she came into town and we walked around town holding hands...and i probably deserved this...but two of the biggest mouths in the school saw.
On the tuesday after ANZAC day we went back to school...and luckily and at the same unluckily my girlfriend didnt know...but everyone else did The two biggest mouths in the school came up and told me that they really care for my girlfriend and dont want her to get hurt by finding out from someone else that i had been seeing her best freind behind her back.
So i told her everything after school and the answer wasnt the best (but who could have expected anything else?) she was completely heart broken and i think i destroyed her best freinds freindship. They hate each other now..and its all my fault
And now (today) neither would even speak to me or even look at me...and i cared so much about them and destroyed everything with sheer unintelligence. For the first time in 6 years i cried...i had built up so much inside and didnt want to show weakness that this just toppled the tower of sadness...i dont know what to do...nor do i think anything is going to improve anytime soon. I dont blame them for hating me either.
I need help, i dont know what to do and its all eating me up...please pray for me i need all the help i can get...especially now

Martyn

 

[Fluteylucy]

Martyn

Bring your problem to God and ask him to forgive you. I'm praying for forgiveness in the hearts of these two girls, and for peace and strength for you.

We all make mistakes honey.

Yours in Jesus

Lucy x

 

[wingcross]

Father,

I pray that You forgive what this man have done. I pray that You will guide him with wisdom to handle the situation wisely. I pray that his two friends will learn to forgive each other as well. He have repented and felt sorry for what he has done. Provide strength and calmness to him so that he can think properly.
In Jesus name, I pray.

 

[dia_liom]

I join Lucy in praying for you, Confuscious, that God will give you the wisdom to know how to mend these relationships. I ask that these women will repair their own relationship, and that they'll forgive you as well, and that God will show you His will in this situation as well.

 

[JPPT1974]

Praying that the Lord will give you guidance and support and letting Him to sort out His plan and will for your life as you need Him more than ever. In thy name amen!!

 

[Wakeup2god]

Since when has crying been a weaknes Confucious? Maybe a sign that you are human after all. You want prayers for God to make everything alright do you? This is called consequence. You're a young man, I'd pray that you learn a few lessons from this. Firstly you can't play with other peoples emotions cos you hurt prople and destroy friendships. Secondly at this stage of your life you obviously can't trust your own emotions and you need to look at some real life truths. Like 'do unto others as you'd have done unto yourself'.... 'You reap what you sow'....

Hope you can take a hard word. Sounds to me like you were more concerned about being caught out than you were about people getting hurt. Things like this can have a long lasting effect on peoples lives. Deceipt and betrayal. You should be praying that your girlfriend whom you have hurt can forgive you and doesn't carry any hidden wounds on into her life. Repent, accept Gods forgiveness and move on.

 

[lady_of_god]

Since when has crying been a weaknes Confucious? Maybe a sign that you are human after all. You want prayers for God to make everything alright do you? This is called consequence. You're a young man, I'd pray that you learn a few lessons from this. Firstly you can't play with other peoples emotions cos you hurt prople and destroy friendships. Secondly at this stage of your life you obviously can't trust your own emotions and you need to look at some real life truths. Like 'do unto others as you'd have done unto yourself'.... 'You reap what you sow'....

Hope you can take a hard word. Sounds to me like you were more concerned about being caught out than you were about people getting hurt. Things like this can have a long lasting effect on peoples lives. Deceipt and betrayal. You should be praying that your girlfriend whom you have hurt can forgive you and doesn't carry any hidden wounds on into her life. Repent, accept Gods forgiveness and move on.

I agree.... I'm praying that the Lord will work things out, but you need to ask for forgiveness from the Lord. Also you should give them an apology.

-Lady

 

[JPPT1974]

Since when has crying been a weaknes Confucious? Maybe a sign that you are human after all. You want prayers for God to make everything alright do you? This is called consequence. You're a young man, I'd pray that you learn a few lessons from this. Firstly you can't play with other peoples emotions cos you hurt prople and destroy friendships. Secondly at this stage of your life you obviously can't trust your own emotions and you need to look at some real life truths. Like 'do unto others as you'd have done unto yourself'.... 'You reap what you sow'....

Hope you can take a hard word. Sounds to me like you were more concerned about being caught out than you were about people getting hurt. Things like this can have a long lasting effect on peoples lives. Deceipt and betrayal. You should be praying that your girlfriend whom you have hurt can forgive you and doesn't carry any hidden wounds on into her life. Repent, accept Gods forgiveness and move on.

You all are human and make mistakes and sin. But the Lord calls us all to forgive as well as forgive those who had wronged us. And that you all need to lean on what the Lord wants for you all. Whether you may not like it or not still lean on the Lord for help and guidance. Amen!!