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FYI 2 scripture is?
You know, in the OT. David danced before the glory of God too. His wife, Michal, had the same attitude some have here regarding dancing and shouting and yelling, ect, ect in the middle of church service. The bible says she despised him and said "How the kind distinguished himself today?"
ok, now that YOU mentioned it, it was right after he addressed....of all things...... women being silent in church !!!
1st Corinthians 14:34&35
"Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive as the law also says.
And if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for women to speak in church."
1st. Corinthians: 14:40
"Let all things be done decently and in order"
If that happened, I would get up too. And walk quickly out of the door, and not return.In the past I have been to a few churches where, for no particular reason, someone from the congregation will get up, scream, and then run in the isles between the seats. This can happen at any point during the service and, to say the least, can be quite disruptive (and it's weird).
When I ask about this behavior the answer is always something like " well, when the Holy Spirit gets a hold of someone, they just do that". With this reasoning, they allow the behavior in the church.
I can't find anything in the bible that mentions this behavior and/or states that this behavior is acceptable during a service. Because this behavior is disruptive (not to mention weird) and does not work to edify others, I see it as something that should not be allowed.
What is your opinion?
Thank you Imana (perhaps that's not spelled right, but you know who you are) and One11 for your differing opinions, and I thank the rest of you for your opinions as well.
Just to clarify things, the behavior I was questioning was getting up, at any point in the service,(worship, preaching, announcements, or prayer) screaming, and running the isles. Sometimes the individual doing this would have a possessed look in his/her eyes (like in the movies) and sometimes not. Sometimes the motivation for their behavior was clear, it was a "look at me" thing, sometimes it was not.
The behavior I am questioning is not the boisterous whooping and hollering that accompanies many charismatic worship services. Nor is it the outbursts spoken in agreement with a preacher during a sermon or prayer (for example). The latter I don't have a problem with, provided one is still polite, and the outburst is not accompanied with a large spray of spit or anything like that.
I used to live in New Orleans where yelling stuff out in service was commonplace. It made church rather entertaining and yet there was still a sense of order.
furthermore, while order is important, that word is often used by religious traditionalists who want to dampen the spirit in a way that, bibcally speakig, they shouldn't. If the bible says that ------ should be allowed then it should be allowed. The question then remains, should getting up and screaming (as I have defined it) be allowed? I don't see any biblical justification for it but do I see a lot of biblical justification for not allowing it.
On a side note (and perhaps this deserves it's own thread) the word "Weird" in reference to church behavior is a relative term. In my definition "weird" is relative to norms spoken about or displayed in the bible. For example some people believe that speaking in toungues is weird. In their world, spiritural manifestations like that just dont happen, they have never experienced it before. When that person finally experiences it, or witnesses it, it is classifyed by them as weird. But if, as a Christian, speaking in toungues should be a normal occurance, then the complete absence of speakin in tongues is weird.
The same can be said about hearing from God. Some people believe that God only speaks to people through his word and possibly through events, but never audibly. If hearing God audably is supposed to be normal and we don't hear God audably then we are weird, not the people who do hear God audably.
The same can be said for miracles. Do you know I went to a church that honestly believed that miracles, like what you read about in the gospels and in Acts, "were not for us today"? Who is weird in this case? As I said before, perhaps the bible should be the standard for what is normal and thus what is weird. I hope I haven't made this too confusing.
In the past I have been to a few churches where, for no particular reason, someone from the congregation will get up, scream, and then run in the isles between the seats. This can happen at any point during the service and, to say the least, can be quite disruptive (and it's weird).
When I ask about this behavior the answer is always something like " well, when the Holy Spirit gets a hold of someone, they just do that". With this reasoning, they allow the behavior in the church.
I can't find anything in the bible that mentions this behavior and/or states that this behavior is acceptable during a service. Because this behavior is disruptive (not to mention weird) and does not work to edify others, I see it as something that should not be allowed.
What is your opinion?
Thank you Imana (perhaps that's not spelled right, but you know who you are) and One11 for your differing opinions, and I thank the rest of you for your opinions as well.
Just to clarify things, the behavior I was questioning was getting up, at any point in the service,(worship, preaching, announcements, or prayer) screaming, and running the isles. Sometimes the individual doing this would have a possessed look in his/her eyes (like in the movies) and sometimes not. Sometimes the motivation for their behavior was clear, it was a "look at me" thing, sometimes it was not.
The behavior I am questioning is not the boisterous whooping and hollering that accompanies many charismatic worship services. Nor is it the outbursts spoken in agreement with a preacher during a sermon or prayer (for example). The latter I don't have a problem with, provided one is still polite, and the outburst is not accompanied with a large spray of spit or anything like that.
I used to live in New Orleans where yelling stuff out in service was commonplace. It made church rather entertaining and yet there was still a sense of order.
furthermore, while order is important, that word is often used by religious traditionalists who want to dampen the spirit in a way that, bibcally speakig, they shouldn't. If the bible says that ------ should be allowed then it should be allowed. The question then remains, should getting up and screaming (as I have defined it) be allowed? I don't see any biblical justification for it but do I see a lot of biblical justification for not allowing it.
On a side note (and perhaps this deserves it's own thread) the word "Weird" in reference to church behavior is a relative term. In my definition "weird" is relative to norms spoken about or displayed in the bible. For example some people believe that speaking in toungues is weird. In their world, spiritural manifestations like that just dont happen, they have never experienced it before. When that person finally experiences it, or witnesses it, it is classifyed by them as weird. But if, as a Christian, speaking in toungues should be a normal occurance, then the complete absence of speakin in tongues is weird.
The same can be said about hearing from God. Some people believe that God only speaks to people through his word and possibly through events, but never audibly. If hearing God audably is supposed to be normal and we don't hear God audably then we are weird, not the people who do hear God audably.
The same can be said for miracles. Do you know I went to a church that honestly believed that miracles, like what you read about in the gospels and in Acts, "were not for us today"? Who is weird in this case? As I said before, perhaps the bible should be the standard for what is normal and thus what is weird. I hope I haven't made this too confusing.
Okay Mr. Butterworth, you are upset about jumping up and running and screaming down the isles and you're probably talking about when the Pastor is giving his sermon? I've personally never seen this except on televangelism shows which I don't watch because it doesn't edify me. I'm just waiting for the spew about okay now sow your seeds of your love gift when everyone is worked up into a frenzy. Some of these are fake and nothing more than an old carnival trick to distract the "sucker" into losing their money or easily giving up their money. Turn off televangalism and start visiting other churches that are denomination orientented because in non-denominational churches you will NOT get away from the possibility of this or other things making you uncomfortable as I did state to you the non-denominational churches are first and foremost set up to accept people of all theological backgrounds worshiping together and side by side, so you may see and experience some things you do not like.
Read the sticky above about what non-denominational churches are. Also, talk to the pastor and the elders about their opinion on this and that it makes you uncomfortable. Listen to what they say, and if their answers aren't sufficient, it might be time to start visiting some other types of denominational worship.
How many types of denominations have your visited?
I have no idea what this is saying. I am non-denominational, and guess what? God led us to our church!
I have never been happier, nor grown so much in God in such a short time. I am glad God saw fit to take us out of the denominational church we grew up in. We are not disorderly in any way, and we allow the Holy Spirit to have His way.
1 Corinthians
Orderly Worship
26What then shall we say, brothers? When you come together, everyone has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. All of these must be done for the strengthening of the church. 27If anyone speaks in a tongue, two—or at the most three—should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. 28If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and God. 29Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said. 30And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. 31For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged. 32The spirits of prophets are subject to the control of prophets. 33For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.
As in all the congregations of the saints, 34women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.
36Did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? 37If anybody thinks he is a prophet or spiritually gifted, let him acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord's command. 38If he ignores this, he himself will be ignored.
39Therefore, my brothers, be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues. 40But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.
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Churches of today are rarely set up like this in regards to prophecy except for some charismatic churches and non-denominational. I'd say church services of today hardly resemble the above at all. Maybe Messianic Jews and Amish follow the above? I cannot say so as I've never been to any of their meetings.
Not to mention women have the gift of prophesy too.
1 Corinthians Here:
5And every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head—it is just as though her head were shaved. 6If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head.
The day of Pentecost also and other days mens eyes were opened that women could prophesy too in the NT. What Paul is saying is not for everyone to speak at once. That would be useless as no one would hear.
p.s. I'm glad I don't live in Mississippi because first Rob you quote scripture out of context, then I ask YOU for scripture, you can't provide it, then I give you the scripture (not taken out of context) and then you complain. I don't think I could on either end with you. I offer you the scripture you don't even know, then complain because a woman showed it you? That is logical. :shakes head:
Uhm...out of context ? My quote of 1st. Cor. is from the New King James Version. And the context...is that THING that are going on in the church should be done "decently and in order".
What have i complained about? Please quote my complaint, because i don't see any
Uhmm...you gave me the exact same scripture i gave you, just in a different version of the Bible. You see, everyone might not have the same Bible version you have. So it just might not appear word for word with your version.
Again, please quote my complaint.
i'm truly sorry if i offended you, i obviously have...sorry
Edit;
does Mississippi really have anything to do with this?
And if so, i'm releaved, because i'm actually a Hoosier lol
A spirited church service does not make me feel uncomfortable, a church service that may be doing things that are unbiblical does make me feel uncomfortable.
As for non-denominational churches, and denominational churches for that matter,I have been to many. I have been a Christian for 26 years and have lived all over the United States giving me plenty of opportunities to experience a wide variety of churches.
I could ask a pastor about his opinion of my question but, naturally, that opinion would depend on what they see appropriate in church. Furthermore, more and more I find that I have just as much understanding about Christianity (if not more) then they do. My purpose for asking my question on this forum is to drum up possibilities that I may have missed, and then examine them. Also, I am generally curious about how many people support practices that are not, or may not be, (I am leaving in the possibility that I am wrong) Biblicaly sound and on what grounds, if any, they support these things.
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