Getting so nervous

[BornAgainGrace414]

Hey, I'm 19 in college and my girlfriend's due date is March 25th.
Also, I've been saved since this happened (for reference lol.)

I'm so nervous. She has dropped and her mucus plug is out she thinks. I haven't really been nervous up until now, I can feel that it's going to be really soon.
I'm very excited, but I have no idea where I'll start. I've got that sinking feeling in my stomach and I just want to be a good father.

I need some young parenting advice, I know what to expect-and I don't...

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
But I'm still so frightened about being a young dad, I'm amazed at the lack of outreach online or anywhere that supports dads and teen ones especially!

God Bless

 

[Inkachu]

There are LOTS of resources for teen parents, both for the moms and the dads. Do you two have your families and friends supporting you? That right there is the most crucial resource of all, not just now but for many years to come. Most states also have free programs for pregnant women, new parents, and their babies, to help with medical care, food, formula, diapers, and support. Make sure you're following all the advice of your doctor at this time, and also make sure you keep all your follow-up appointments after the baby is born.

Of course you're nervous and overwhelmed right now! Having a baby (especially when it's your first) is a huge, life-changing experience, even for older people. The best thing you can do is stick close to your girlfriend and be her strength right now; trust me, she's a LOT more scared than you are lol.

Being a "good dad" means that you'll stick with your girlfriend and child, be available to them 24/7, provide for their needs (emotionally AND financially), and be ready to take on the role of a man, because having a baby means your teen years are done, and you've got to become an adult really quickly. And unless there's some major obstacle in the way, IMHO you should marry this girl and create a family, not another broken household, of which there are already way too many in this world.

As someone who was pregnant and scared to death at 22, I can definitely relate to your situation, and you're welcome to PM me anytime if you need to talk

 

[nhisname]

Hey, I'm 19 in college and my girlfriend's due date is March 25th.
Also, I've been saved since this happened (for reference lol.)

I'm so nervous. She has dropped and her mucus plug is out she thinks. I haven't really been nervous up until now, I can feel that it's going to be really soon.
I'm very excited, but I have no idea where I'll start. I've got that sinking feeling in my stomach and I just want to be a good father.

I need some young parenting advice, I know what to expect-and I don't...

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
But I'm still so frightened about being a young dad, I'm amazed at the lack of outreach online or anywhere that supports dads and teen ones especially!

God Bless

I am so glad you have come to repentence and have asked the Lord into your heart. That's the easy part. Living the Christian life is what's very, very hard. The only book you need for guidence is the Bible. It will help you in every area. God is your support. Being a good Dad is a lot more than giving him material things. The best gift of all is to love his mother and together with God's help you'll be able to raise a well adjusted child who will know what love is suppose to be. Everything will fall into place, trust the Lord.

 

[BornAgainGrace414]

Thanks for the replies! Yes, if I get time I'm going to try and attend a dad's class, but I don't knkow that I actually will be able to. Lot on my plate.
I appreciate the support and guidance/advice!

 

[katystar]

Just have faith and you'll do good. COngrats and I'll pray for you and your family.

 

[CrystalBrooke]

March 25th is a wonderful day to be born..it's my daughter's birthday.

I had her when I was barely 18. It will be tough, but communicate about everything, help her as much as you can and be understanding even if you don't know what's going on, her body will still be going through a lot of changes after the baby's born. Clean the baby, feed the baby, love the baby....can't go wrong with that.

 

[BornAgainGrace414]

Very comforting to know some people on here had children so young too!
Did you end up married to the parent?

 

[Inkachu]

Nope, he was an abusive loser, and we were better off without him. Thankfully, I had supportive family that helped me through those first years when I could not have survived on my own with a new baby.

Remember to take things one day at a time, and never be afraid to ask for help if you need it! You CAN make it through this together as a family, if you bind together and keep it all under God.

 

[CrystalBrooke]

I did marry my daughter's father, but divorced him 2 years later.

 

[Tink]

To the OP: God is with you.

Prayers for you, your girlfriend, and the baby.