Getting pregnant on Doctors orders.

[stealingheaven]

Has anyone been advised by their Dr to start trying for a family right away rather than wait around only to discover it might not happen (for medical reasons) You're not yet married though and don't know if you should wait till you are, but worry that even though it's not far away, (the wedding day) it might just be too far away and the damage is done?!

 

[Singin4Him]

Have faith in our awesome God! He is bigger than any doctor and if it is His will for you to have a child He will allow this to happen. I personally wouldn't advise you to TTC before you get married that would most likely bring stress into your new marriage and just would not be wise. Pray hard about this and ask the Lord to give you the faith to believe that He is in complete control of your fertility. Sex outside of marriage is sin, even if a doctor has told you to TTC right away before marriage you would be sinning and God would not bless that. God will bless your obedience and patience for Him to work in His time. Ultimately you will not be able to conceive without the Lord right? I know many women who were told they would be unable to have children yet they did anyway, my husband was a miracle baby himself. Don't doubt the strength and power of the Lord.

 

[Green Orchid]

Have faith in our awesome God! He is bigger than any doctor and if it is His will for you to have a child He will allow this to happen. I personally wouldn't advise you to TTC before you get married that would most likely bring stress into your new marriage and just would not be wise. Pray hard about this and ask the Lord to give you the faith to believe that He is in complete control of your fertility. Sex outside of marriage is sin, even if a doctor has told you to TTC right away before marriage you would be sinning and God would not bless that. God will bless your obedience and patience for Him to work in His time. Ultimately you will not be able to conceive without the Lord right? I know many women who were told they would be unable to have children yet they did anyway, my husband was a miracle baby himself. Don't doubt the strength and power of the Lord.

Awesome post, I totally agree!

 

[gracefaith]

Is this for endometriosis?

 

[stealingheaven]

To be honest I'm not exactly sure what my medical condition is, I have an appointment for a scan at the end of November so I will hopefully fully undersatnd then, but at the moment it could be endemetriosis, fibroids, cyst or a problem caused by my under-active thyroid.

 

[Lexi]

I'd personally bump up the wedding date because having children is something that is very important to me.

 

[seamonster]

If it were me, I would probably also bump the wedding date

 

[stealingheaven]

I had my scan this morning but I have to wait a week to see the Dr to have the results explained to me. I did overhear the 2 nurses who were doing the scan say I've got a tilted uterus and there appeared to be something on one of my ovaries but they ruled out a cyst so I'm not sure what it is? I also know it's not fibroids. I just have to be pateint and see what the Dr tells me in about a week. My fiance is very supportive and he knows how I long to have a child, if God so blesses us. It's all in God's capabale hands and I'm beginning to accept this, I just have days where I feel really down about the possibility of not having a child.

Thank you for your posts by the way. God bless.

 

[...butterfly...]

yeah i'm with the other ladies. If your doc is encouraging you to start a family now cause of health reasons, I'd bump up the wedding date