If my sister were not so hostile and so anxious to be dependent on, and use, other people, I would take your suggestion.
Actually, anyway she does have a social worker and she has been in the system for about 20 years and so knows how things work. I don’t think she would even need my help or advice.
Also I put my sister on block so that I can avoid her games, insults, and general abuse. For how long I don’t know. So really we are not in communication. I did leave a message with her neighbor to tell her that if she went into something like assisted-living and could not take her cat, that I would take the cat.
But I really appreciate your concern.
That is so sweet of you to offer to take her cat. Having severalIf my sister were not so hostile and so anxious to be dependent on, and use, other people, I would take your suggestion.
Actually, anyway she does have a social worker and she has been in the system for about 20 years and so knows how things work. I don’t think she would even need my help or advice.
Also I put my sister on block so that I can avoid her games, insults, and general abuse. For how long I don’t know. So really we are not in communication. I did leave a message with her neighbor to tell her that if she went into something like assisted-living and could not take her cat, that I would take the cat.
But I really appreciate your concern.
Lion lies down with the lamb.I have a cat, too, and love animals. Way off topic but I believe good little pets go to Heaven. One of my favorite examples is from Dean Braxton, seen on CBN with his emergency care doctor. He had no heart beat and no respiration for 1 3/4 hours and yet came back and is totally healthy now. His report on Heaven, in his book and elsewhere on You Tube, included seeing former pets and all kinds of animals there, especially horses.
For skeptics (as he was before he died) he provides Biblical proof. We see Messiah coming back on a white horse. In Revelation we also see a flying eagle sending out a verbal message in Heaven. In the Bible in Hebrew we are told that zoon worship before the Throne. Zoon means beasts.
Love your cat's ears!
Maybe being feral he really likes the outdoors. You have been very patient.Lion lies down with the lamb.
Thank you about my cat. That's why I chose him. The hair coming out of his ears maybe a trait I think. I love it. I was fortunate to have a short time with him. He was feral but when he was fixed that gave me a chance to tame him but he has some unbearable habits so I had to put him outside. I am hoping he will lose them and I can bring him back in.
Thanks for ministering to me when you are in need. Hope your Sabbath was a blessing.Well I have prayed for you and yours for holy angels to surround you and for the Holy Spirit to guide you.
To recap, my wheelchair bound, and mentally disturbed, sister in another state slapped someone in her H.U.D. apartment building because of his obscene and menacing remarks to her. Of course she should’ve just reported the behavior, but she often acts irrationally.
The management there decided to evict her. She’s going to court on the 24th to fight that.
She doesn’t save money. For example she spent all of her stimulus checks on things that were not at all necessary and was hinting around to see if I had any stimulus money to give her of my own. She does have a social worker who is trying to help, and gets a lot of help for physical needs through Medicare and Medicaid.
But I don’t think those would help her with moving expenses and a security deposit.
I am at a loss as to what to do, if anything, to help her. She is so incredibly verbally abusive. For example she has told me that our mother should have aborted me, and recently said that she hoped my daughter would die.
Because of her abuse there’s really no family or anyone to help her if she needs it. I can’t afford to take her on as a dependent. I figure even if I do give her some financial help that it will be just pouring good money after bad, since her antics and hostility seem to increase more and more overtime to people in general and seem possibly to likely just cause her similar problems in the future.
No doubt she is concerned about becoming homeless.
I have been praying for things to go well for her in court. I have been praying to know what, if anything to do to help her. Basically, honestly, I really don’t want anything to do with her anymore.
It seems I have nothing to offer her. She really doesn’t want love or a true family relationship. Though she would be very happy to take any money! She just wants to use and abuse and make excuses for all of it.
I know she has a sickness, in fact a sickness like my mothers who is now deceased. Again, I don’t know what, if anything, to do for her. And I haven’t heard from the Lord about this in response to my queries.
She has had periodic bouts of suicidal feelings since a young adult. Since this is the most challenging time of her life, I am concerned about that too. She has darkly hinted that she might do something like that.
Please pray for me to know what, if anything, to do.
Oh, and one other thing, which I know animal lovers won’t think is trivial. Whatever happens, I pray, and ask you to pray too please, that her years- long rescue cat, Cammie, will not wind up out on the streets or any place bad.
Sorry this is so long!
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