Before I respond to your latest post, I feel the need to apologize.
Even though you were the one who brought up your grandson and another family member that identifies as transgender - making them "fair game" in my opinion - I felt bad and hope you know that I wasn't trying to claim that they are "wicked" or that you are a bad person or anything.
I don't disagree with what I said - that transgenderism is a mental illness, and we should not encourage children to accept their delusion - but I won't be referring to or addressing any comment about your family anymore.
As an act of contrition - with the hope that it may help you understand where I am coming from better - I would like to share some relevant anecdotes from my life regarding my family - particularly my seven-year-old son.
My son is very inquisitive and imaginative - but also very proud - he does not like receiving instruction, making mistakes or being told that he is wrong - these things can cause tears.
Anyways - when that movie "Lightyear" came out I heard about the homosexual couple - and my initial reaction was to not have my kids watch it - but after watching it myself I decided to use the movie as a learning opportunity.
I watched my son's reaction when the homosexual couple kissed - he asked me to pause it (which he often does because he always asks questions) and he expressed his confusion about the two ladies kissing.
I explained what homosexuality was and that it was not what God wanted His children to do - but that God made us free - and that what they do is none of our business.
We then went over scenarios about what he should do if he witnessed such scenes - after a couple confusing moments - he learned that he should tell a teacher if he saw students (of any sex) kissing at school (they are seven!) and that he should also tell a teacher if he sees any adults kissing students.
Then came the dreaded "Blue's Clues" incident - when the main guy (I think his name is Steve) told the viewers that a boy can become a girl or a girl a boy - and I was floored - not expecting to see that on this kid's show.
Anyways - this led to my son asking questions and I told him that God made us male and female - that we cannot switch teams - but that there are some confused people that believe that we can.
It ultimately boiled down to, "We know the truth, but we should love other people and mind our own business."
Finally - the big incident that had me shaking - after seeing Blue's Clues I shared some older kid's shows with my boy - like Invader Zim, Gummi Bears and the Fairly Odd Parents - things I knew didn't have that kind of stuff in it.
Anyways - he came up to me one day after watching some Fairly Odd Parents to tell me about a scene where Timmy's dad (who is very silly and portrayed to be very stupid) had put on a dress for some reason and claimed that he was as, "Beautiful as a woman."
I laughed along with him, but then he said that this was "proof" that men can become women.
I panicked - he noticed and became defensive (thinking I was about to correct him, and he hates that) - and I asked if Timmy's dad claimed to be a woman - he said "No, but only women can be beautiful. Men are handsome." - to which I responded by saying that anyone can be beautiful, and everyone is beautiful to God.
He started crying - claiming that I was wrong - but when I asked him why this was so important to him, he shrugged - then I asked if he wanted to be a girl and he said "No" - I then asked if he knew any boy that claimed to be a girl and he said "No" - he was still upset by the way with the tears and quivering lip.
So, I explained that even though Timmy's dad made a joke about being as beautiful as a woman - it was just a joke and that he was still a man - and he was still Timmy's dad and still loved Timmy and his wife.
That is when I asked him if he had anyone that he liked at school - He said "No" - and I asked if he liked girls - and he said "I don't know" - so I asked if he liked boys and he said "No" - then I asked him again why he got so upset about what Timmy's dad said and about him not actually being a woman and he finally admitted, "I don't like being wrong."
Crisis averted! I told him that we cannot be right all the time - we aren't God after all - and that we need to endure being corrected with humility.
Anyways - all that being said - I have yet to encounter any teachers or administrators pushing this kind of stuff - we moved to a conservative State a few years back to avoid stuff like that.
Yeah, mentioning gays and not knowing any was used as a comparison. You know, gay people existed but were afraid of coming out? I guess you didn't understand the point.
Oh! Yeah - I didn't get that at all.
I suppose it is because I do not believe that anyone is "born that way".
And I really can't help you if you don't understand the difference between biological sex and gender.
Well - I would argue that no one seems to - since they keep flip flopping on it over and over.
One second, they claim that they are different - then the next second they mention "biological gender" or refer to biological men as the "first female [insert example here]" - like they did with Rachel Levine.
I don't believe that the concept of "gender" exists as it has been explained to me.
There are "engendered" words and roles - but as far as I am concerned "gender" does not exist.
We are either male or female - nothing else.
Actually I'm not really interested in helping you understand either. I have this sense when it's a lost cause.
I understand - I just will never agree - and in that sense I am a lost cause.
Then you be sure to avoid it.
Don't worry - I try - but it is getting more and more difficult as it is being inserted everywhere.
Although I will continue to speak the truth about it because I love my neighbors.
You don't know? You don't think that gay people were reluctant to admit to what so many people were calling abhorrent? And worse. Actual violence.
I'm sure that was part of it - but their spirits were probably trying to stop them from being overcome by their weakness and succumbing to sin as well.
There's a memorial on the headland ten minutes from me that's dedicated to all the LGBTQ people who suffered from hate crimes in the suburb in the 70's, 80's and 90's. So many murdered. And that transgender people get similar treatment today? Mentally ill, sick, perverted...stick around. You'll see terms like that being thrown around in the forum.
I have already seen, and I have also pointed out these truths when appropriate.
Thankfully he knows more than you do. Thankfully there'll be more like him and he'll find when he grows up that there'll be less like you. As the numbers shrink you'll have to make more noise to be heard. Because more people will be ignoring you.
I won't engage the comments about your grandson anymore - but I will admit that you are right - the day will come when evil will be seen as good, and truth will be replaced with lies - just as the prophets have claimed.
I hope you realize that truth is not decided by consensus.
Well, if you change the definition of words to suit your arguments then at least you'll think you'll be winning lots of them.
That is very rich coming from someone who believes as you do.
We should keep a list. We've got gender, murder and abortion so far.
The concept of "gender" as you are trying to foist on people is very new and incorrect.
Murder is the unlawful killing of a human being - just because the State does not recognize the humanity of the not-yet-born does not make it any less murder.
I'm sure there are a lot of examples from history that I could point out to showcase that dehumanizing people can lead to murder - even if they did not believe it to be murder at the time.
If you don't realize how the term "abortion" has changed in our society then there is nothing need to discuss it further.
People do not think "abortion" when they hear about a miscarriage or stillbirth.