My husband and I are exploring Christianity together after being agnostics/questioning for many years. We have been attending church every week together to explore this desire for truth and are finding that Christianity may hold more than we ever realized.
I'm curious on the Christian perspective on when it is "right" (or if it is wrong to deny) bringing children into the world. My husband and I have been a couple for 9 years, living together for 5, and have been married for 6 months. I have a yearning to have a baby although we aren't in ideal circumstances. We are 24, live in an apartment, and don't make a ton of money. I am a school teacher and he works for a major airline in an entry level position. We don't have a lot in savings, but our income won't drastically increase for several more years as he moves up in the company.
We have been avoiding pregnancy because of these reasons but I yearn for a baby every day. Since exploring Christianity, I am curious if this is a desire being placed in my heart from God or just my desires to selfishly fulfill the one thing I've ever wanted: to be a mother.
How can I discern the two? What does the Bible and Christianity say about the "right time" to procreate? Is it really wrong to be preventing pregnancy right now instead of trusting in God's timing?
I'm curious on the Christian perspective on when it is "right" (or if it is wrong to deny) bringing children into the world. My husband and I have been a couple for 9 years, living together for 5, and have been married for 6 months. I have a yearning to have a baby although we aren't in ideal circumstances. We are 24, live in an apartment, and don't make a ton of money. I am a school teacher and he works for a major airline in an entry level position. We don't have a lot in savings, but our income won't drastically increase for several more years as he moves up in the company.
We have been avoiding pregnancy because of these reasons but I yearn for a baby every day. Since exploring Christianity, I am curious if this is a desire being placed in my heart from God or just my desires to selfishly fulfill the one thing I've ever wanted: to be a mother.
How can I discern the two? What does the Bible and Christianity say about the "right time" to procreate? Is it really wrong to be preventing pregnancy right now instead of trusting in God's timing?