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Ok...I'm a college student and i have a question. Lately i've been feeling like my friends have been putting me down a lot. And i don't want to bring it up to them b/c i'm afraid it's just me and it's not real and if i bring it up to them then things might get weird and i don't want that. I've been tring to just sit back and see if i'm right or wrong but when i get quiet (because i'm normally loud and outgoing) they just leave me alone. Sometimes i just want them to ask if somethings wrong whether or not i'll tell them. Can you tell i'm a girl??:) Well if anyone has any advice it would be appriciated.
 

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peach16_4u said:
Ok...I'm a college student and i have a question. Lately i've been feeling like my friends have been putting me down a lot. And i don't want to bring it up to them b/c i'm afraid it's just me and it's not real and if i bring it up to them then things might get weird and i don't want that. I've been tring to just sit back and see if i'm right or wrong but when i get quiet (because i'm normally loud and outgoing) they just leave me alone. Sometimes i just want them to ask if somethings wrong whether or not i'll tell them. Can you tell i'm a girl??:) Well if anyone has any advice it would be appriciated.
What have they been putting you down for. I guess you're just going to have to confront them about it. If you feel that way then it must be "real". And maybe they leave you alone when you get quite is because they think that's what you want. Usually when I get quite, I want to be left alone. Anyways, best advice is confront them. Let them know something's wrong, otherwise they'll never know, and things will never get fixed.
 
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