Theophilus7; Your point one, is only someones idea of what will happean Ch. vers. please. On the other side they could fall to there knees because of the love. As for your second point God harden pharoah heart not pharoah to show God glory.
If you read my post more carefully, you would have noticed that I pointed you to Romans and Jeremiah for reference. However, I am happy to give you some more specific directions:
Regarding Pharaoh, you are mistaken. The Bible clearly states that he hardened his own heart in Ex. 8:15; 8:32; 9:34. It is in chapter 10:1 that the Bible tells us that God hardened his heart this time. This illustrates the principle very well. People begin by hardening their own hearts, and there comes a point when God finishes them off, forming them into a vessel of His own design to bear His wrath. They will serve His purpose in this way, even if they were unwilling to serve Him as an act of free will. This means God gets all the glory in the end. What a God you serve,
enoch son - one who is big enough to grant free will and still get all the glory!
The same principle is demonstrated in 2Thessalonians, where God sends a "powerful delusion" to those who did not believe the truth. Observe that the sending of the delusion is subsequent to their prior rejection of the truth (2Th. 2:11). They choose to persist in ignorance and folly, and God finishes them off, plunging them into deception.
Again, the same principle is alluded to in Jeremiah. The clay refused to run in the potter's hands (18:4), so he reworked it into "another vessel" instead - a vessel for wrath and judgement.
It is this principle that Paul is speaking about in Romans which Calvinists take out of context. Because Israel hardened themselves, because they wouldn't run in the potter's hands, the Potter hardened them Himself and reworked them into "another vessel". No one will have the right to say to him, "why did you make me thus?", because God as Creator had the right to do this to those who would not cooperate. If we will not be used willingly for God's purposes, God will still make use of us just the same, and throw us in the fire when He is finished with us. Not a pleasant prospect.
So you see the clay is given its chance to
freely cooperate - to flow in the Potter's hands and willingly submit to His designs. And when it refuses to do this, God will force it into a different shape. People can and do resist the Holy Spirit (Acts 7:51), but there comes a point where sin will not be allowed to hold the universe to ransom and thwart God's purposes. He will use us just the same, with or without our cooperation.
When we interpret the Bible holistically, we usually find that difficult passages resolve themselves,
enoch son. It is better to build our theology upon the whole counsel of God. What I have tried to share with you has, I think, successfully incorporated Arminian and Calvinistic emphases without contradiction or scripture twisting.
Hope this helps.