When I was admitted, I sent a message to the school provost informing him of my trans status and asking which restrooms they would want me to use. Of course, I'm much more comfortable in the women's room, but I wasn't interested in making an issue of it and was willing to abide by school policy. The response I got was, "I guess it doesn't matter which one you use as long as nobody complains." So, in reality, my restroom access was under the control of the students, rather than the administration, and I was not guaranteed that either would consistently be made available. My conclusion was to not use either and just hold it. There was one evening each week when I had 2 classes with a half hour break between. So, I was on campus for about 3 hours. Holding it got to be rather painful. And I realized it wasn't healthy. I pass fairly well, but not perfectly. Once in a while I would get nasty expressions from a few students. I realized that these were the same people who would be creating havoc for me IF I were to use the ladies room. And, I was terrified to use a men's room. The threat of attack or worse was too high. I didn't see any other way out of the dilemma. So, I just quit.