I do not have a problem with the Pope-- today. To be honest, Pope John Paul 2 helped to bring me to Orthodoxy. To state it bluntly, if the "power" of the Church was under one bishop, it would be evident, imo. But the Pope has lost control of his church. At least at the levels that concern me and my family.
I know that many here have had RC affiliations at one time and may have better understandings concerning some issues, but I comment as one outside looking in to both . I had to weigh the two in the balance and from the beginning, the Pope was a non issue, and still is. If he's orthodox in belief (and I never heard an unorthodox comment that comes to mind) , and had even half of the direct influence my current bishop has over his priests and parishoners, or the consensus of some protestant denomionations, then I would be the first on board. It' s just not there, at least by what I can observe directly, and I have not prejudiced myself in just one locale, reading, or liturgy, I've attended certian RC sacraments in Italy.
There is no cohesive approach to the sacraments in RC that I have personally seen, weddings, masses, funeruals. Yet in Orthodoxy, even if it was in a foriegn language, it is there. I guess that means in Othodoxy it was coincedence, or it was of importance for some reason. An in the RC, it was not important for some reason.
I defintitely sense a unity to the Orthodox tradition in worship. Even accross language and culture. In RC worship, I got the sense of something locale, something that was for that community only, their tastes, culture and expectations.
Expectations.....hmmmm
I have watched the laws of entropy take hold on every Christian religious institution around me, some faster than others. Is Orthodoxy next? It is the only thing that has survived somewhat intact since my birth and before, that remains accessible.