If you do not attend the TR meeting, you would not be issued your TR card. If you don't have a card, you would be prohibited from witnessing your child's, friend's, or relatives wedding vows within a mormon temple.
Where in any christian scripture do we find the teachings of Christ supporting such an outrageous practice. For all the "family togetherness" the lds purports to be, how do you rationalize in christain spirit, separting loved ones on what should be one of the most joyous days of ones life?
As the lds posters have explained, the "worthiness" requirement is for the one receiving the ordinance. If so, why exclude those, regardless of their faith, at a temple wedding. If I am not receiving the ordinance, how does my presence offend god or impact the ceremony?
Thats why it begs the question:
Is this whole TR interview process really about "worthiness" or is it about "control"?