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brinny

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I was sure missing my friend though - I really was - and still do - but not as much now. Even shed a few tears...

God is claiming a bigger part of yer heart, eh?
 
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God is claiming a bigger part of yer heart, eh?

yeah - I knew HE needed to be more important than that friend. It was hard to get the right perspective. -- it was a weakness -- for sure... not sure what to do about that friend now... just let 'em go I guess... if ya love sumpin let it go - right?
 
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yeah - I knew HE needed to be more important than that friend. It was hard to get the right perspective. -- it was a weakness -- for sure... not sure what to do about that friend now... just let 'em go I guess... if ya love sumpin let it go - right?

actually, that is true....and i'm kinda in the same place right now....this friend is a good friend, and a dear one, but yet....i MUST be willing to let go....it's necessary....otherwise it could be a "stunting" experience for both of us.....any "neediness" has GOT to be turned over to God...and i was just meditating on this earlier today...that i'd NEVER, ever wanna clip his wings or him do so./....uh-uh....in a true friendship, both must grow their wings as far as they're meant to grow.
 
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wow - that is right where I am - and it hurts... but the hurt does not last... I'll be fine... what do I do with the next friend HE sends me??? I pray I will (we will) be able to KEEP HIM more at the center of things.

well, to be honest, with all this stuff of inexplicable proportions that i've been goin through, i do not have the impetus to be speakin to anyone, in depth, unless they ARE sent by God Almighty, and then, even then, the "freedom" thing rings real clear with me.

What i believe more than ever:

respect, genuine respect, is more important than the warm fuzzies in a relationship.
 
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i traveled out of town thursday to see my daddy
and make sure he was ok and thankfully he be ok.
got back not to long ago and enjoyed my family and friends.
Now i have an achy eye and forehead for i had me a wee bit of an accident
Hi Kathy,
You had an accident? :confused: I'm praying you'll be good as new :pray: asap.

and it be swallon and hurts to read and type so i may not be on here too long. hope everyone has a good day.
please pray for my friends friend whose house caught on fire this morning.
This woman is totally devastated. she lost a lot of precious belongings & her kitty is missing.
oh dear, our neignbor's house burnt to the ground, 3 yrs. ago,
and so I offered them our house, rent-free :thumbsup: of course. - They accepted, and
then re-floored :thumbsup: half our house, & installed the carpet
we bought, in the other 1/2 of the house.

i plan on heading back that way next weekend to help out.
your prayers are much appreciated. thank you.
You sure do ALOT of traveling, you don't have to work?, and
THANKS for your loving :hug: kind heart.
stay :pray: SAFE
and
posting less & less in CF. Come back asap. :wave:
 
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His wounds are definitely deeper than our hurts - this I do know, so why do we have to suffer at all?
I suppose so we know HIS pain to some degree - don't friends feel for one another and share in their glories as well as their griefs. Yes, I can see this truth of what it means to be in a true relationship with our Lord.
wow! - that is another reason I won't return to church.

God Lovingly suffered for my sins, so I can be His beloved :angel: child...
but
in NO-way does He want me to suffer pain, just so
we know His pain to some degree
. <- I'm sorry but
that makes absolutely no sense to me.

My relationship with God is so :angel: sweet. - And
I'm not gonna go to church 'til I find people I can fellowship :hug: with likewise.
 
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:wave:Hello group.
Whitebeaches, you are a good Christian, friend and daughter. You will sure be in my prayers.
Hi Annie, I guess you are right, I never thought of it that way. Our Lord died for ours sins, NOT so we would have to suffer as He did.
 
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Good afternoon. :wave: I think God allows different things in our lives for different reasons. I think human nature and the fall of man have a lot to do with why we suffer. We aren't in 'Eden' any more. I think we as people make enough of our own mistakes and create suffering. As long as we have our human nature there is no such thing as perfect. Why we suffer....... that's the million dollar question. :confused:
 
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Whoa! It's like that "You gotta walk that lonesome valley...you gotta walk it by yourself...no, nobody else can walk it for you...you gotta walk it by yourself"....

Know that i am liftin yu to our Abba as we speak.

Only we can truly experience our pain and get through. Thank goodness God is on our side and walking with us. Take care.
 
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god allows us to suffer in hopes to draw us closer to him. but i wish i uderstood why he allows somethings to come into our lives that honestly we could have done without. and why do some ppl receive a healing here on earth while others wait till they reach those pearly gates. ah, the mysterious ways of our Lord. Who cam know them?
 
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