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Females in the Friendzone

broken_one

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I've seen this too. However, I think it has something to do with the way you act when you're dating someone vs how girls see each other. Maybe I'm just a bit of a narcissist, but I know a couple of guys that aren't dating anyone and get more harassment than all of the other men I know put together.
I think it has something to do with the guy and how he's acting.

Hmmm....if it is the way someone is acting, I need to figure out how to switch up my own actions so I can add it to my skills. If only I knew what it was, though.
 
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Hmmm....if it is the way someone is acting, I need to figure out how to switch up my own actions so I can add it to my skills. If only I knew what it was, though.

are you silly at all? do you know what you want to do with your life?
 
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broken_one

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are you silly at all? do you know what you want to do with your life?
and it's not nec a "skill" but more your own personality.
I somewhat know what I want to do with my life, but my silliness is not attractive to other women.

My personality is a bit....idk. It's hard to talk about yourself when you're trying to be impartial, lol.
 
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Hey, look on the bright side, friends/sisters are forever.
lol I like to be the friend/sister, but not to EVERY single guy I come in contact with, otherwise I'll never have prospects to marry! :p
 
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That's why I said 90%. I know most guys who are secular, a quite a few who are religious as well. I don't necessarily fit their mold, but I know their mold. Which is why I get to speak on these things. I'm rarely talking about what most women do, unless I'm feeling bitter. :p

I think your numbers are a bit skewed it's not 90% its probably more like 65-70%.
 
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Okay sorry Howard (I think thats who it was lol) I had to steal your thread cause I thought it was good and do a spin off of it. :p
This is MY problem.. I know a lot of guys get stuck in the friendzone with girls, but it's also vice versa. I lately have gotten in the friendzone with practically all guys that I've met. Im not sure how I get there, lol. I mean sure, I dont say "im going to date this guy" every time I meet a guy, I dont expect to date each one. But it gets frustrating when it starts to feel like all guys see me as just friend material..or..*gulp* Their sister.
Any girls feel this way, in this situation? lol Any tips? :p :)

Nothing wrong with making friends. Just don't start blaming men for your lack of luck.
 
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