Feeling lonely again, doesn't feel like people are able to understand me.

[timewerx]

Trial and error is the solution.

Yes, I agree! IN my case, it's more like errors and trials

 

[Citanul]

The disclaimer is many young women will grow out of it. They love games when young but as they get older and do more reponsibilities, they lose interest in video games.

I'm not sure it's losing interest as much as it is priorities changing. Having changed priorities and increased responsibilities is something which should affect men as well, but a common complaint is that they neglect those responsibilities and still carry on with things like playing games. And if they happen to be in a relationship it can result in the woman being forced to pick up the slack, further increasing the perception that they've "grown out" of those things (a term which I don't actually like as it implies that there's something wrong with playing games when it's playing games to the exclusion of other things which is the actual problem).

 

[timewerx]

I'm not sure it's losing interest as much as it is priorities changing. Having changed priorities and increased responsibilities is something which should affect men as well, but a common complaint is that they neglect those responsibilities and still carry on with things like playing games. And if they happen to be in a relationship it can result in the woman being forced to pick up the slack, further increasing the perception that they've "grown out" of those things (a term which I don't actually like as it implies that there's something wrong with playing games when it's playing games to the exclusion of other things which is the actual problem).

I used to love video games as well. Up all night sometimes!

But changing priorities in life, now I barely do video games anymore and I wouldn't mind having someone who don't do video games at all.

 

[Citanul]

I used to love video games as well. Up all night sometimes!

But changing priorities in life, now I barely do video games anymore and I wouldn't mind having someone who don't do video games at all.

I'm the same with video games, although I'd be perfectly happy with someone who still played as long as their playing didn't get in the way of other things.

 

[blackribbon]

Have you tried going to an anime convention? Talking to girls is easy, you just admire their cosplay and ask them how they made something on it or about that anime series. At the very least, you would get practice conversing with girls and maybe make a friend or two.