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Yeah, I'd definitely address that search query with him and find out what the deal is. That rubs me the wrong way.
I've got a 6 year old daughter, and I've gotta say that having kids colors how I look at everything. Like, let's say I hypothetically got a wild hair going and decided to go find/watch some porn. I would NOT be able to do a search like "Daddy daughter best friend" without in a very REAL sense thinking about my own kids...because I am a daddy...my daughter will have best friends...etc. Just hits too close to home...so I would avoid any thought like that like the plague. In such a moment the last thing I want to do is creep myself out. lol
So I have a hard time understanding how it wouldn't have the same reaction on someone else.
I've got a 6 year old daughter, and I've gotta say that having kids colors how I look at everything. Like, let's say I hypothetically got a wild hair going and decided to go find/watch some porn. I would NOT be able to do a search like "Daddy daughter best friend" without in a very REAL sense thinking about my own kids...because I am a daddy...my daughter will have best friends...etc. Just hits too close to home...so I would avoid any thought like that like the plague. In such a moment the last thing I want to do is creep myself out. lol
So I have a hard time understanding how it wouldn't have the same reaction on someone else.
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Exactly.... I've definitely got to ask him about it. It does worry me. I'm hoping I can have this talk with him this week but with the way this school he's in right now is going I may have to wait until the weekend.
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Did the things he went through previously include sexual abuse, because they still find that in the case of sexual abuse a victim is more likely (by no means certain, just higher percentage) to abuse later in life.
Recent studies have indicated physical abuse does not necessarily pre-dispose one to such, but sexual abuse still seems to.
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No he never delt with that that I'm aware of. His parents divorced when he was young, loss of a sibling, father being a womanizer basically. That type of thing.
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