Anybody can be wrong about anything.
And I, for one, would like to have it pointed out to me if it is the case.
And yes, I consiously and explicitly try to avoid being dogmatic about anything.
Well, it sounds like we're on the same page about all that.
What brings joy to person A isn't necessarily the same to person B.
I'ld say that it is rather subjective.
Yes, and I've asserted the same earlier on in this thread (just not to you directly perhaps.)So ... ditto.
I think that is like trying to fight a loosing battle.
Sounds like trying to objectively defining what "joy" is and how one has to achieve it.
The way I see it, if I'ld ask 10 different people what brings them "joy" in their life, I'ld most likely get 10 different answers. And none of them would be "wrong".
I guess that what I am concerned about is ...it seems to me, anyway...that many times when people "wake up" and find themselves unjoyful, and they perceive that religion has somehow hampered their access to whatever missing "joy" they think they're entitle too, that somewhere in the mix of all the downing of religion is a dash of dishonesty.
People will trade in religion for various things that supposedly bring them "joy," and typically those things they're craving are, let us say, relational in nature, sexual in nature. The problem is that chasing mental and/or physical interaction with another human being isn't necessarily what it is often touted to be. That "ideal" partner can still leave us cold, or broken-hearted, maybe even financially broke, sometimes with an STD, or with a drug habit, or some other addiction, and so on.
So, in my estimation, all this rhetoric about 'religion' getting in the way is a kind of make-believe smoke-screen. It would be better to just be honest and say, "Y'know, I'm really craving some not necessarily licit interaction with other people (SEX!!!), and my religious beliefs make be feel guilty for wanting some of those things (...even though I don't really know if those things will fully bring me the "joy" I'm hoping for...)
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