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zippy2006

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In sum, I think the 'Woman at the Well' example is more than enough for people to gauge a rough heuristic as to what Christian compassion should look like but so often fails to be.
But this just brings us back to more evaded questions, such as this:

Why do you think the Woman at the Well is a case of empathy? If you want to be the jockey you have to be willing to give some concrete rationale for your views.
Your response was to distinguish empathy from compassion, at which point I repeated for the umpteenth time that you have continually failed to tell us what you mean by those two terms. So you're engaged in circular reasoning, over and over.

Besides, if the Woman at the Well has to do with compassion rather than empathy, as you claim, then it's not clear how it functions as an example in a discussion of empathy in the first place.
 
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But this just brings us back to more evaded questions, such as this:


Your response was to distinguish empathy from compassion, at which point I repeated for the umpteenth time that you have continually failed to tell us what you mean by those two terms. So you're engaged in circular reasoning, over and over.

Besides, if the Woman at the Well has to do with compassion rather than empathy, as you claim, then it's not clear how it functions as an example in a discussion of empathy in the first place.

You really know how to bring out the mutual feelings of Christian fellowship in a guy, Zippy.

My answers for this are what they are here in this thread and also in the parallel thread in this same forum.

Have a blessed evening!
 
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Your response was to distinguish empathy from compassion, at which point I repeated for the umpteenth time that you have continually failed to tell us what you mean by those two terms. So you're engaged in circular reasoning, over and over.
This phenomenon can be found up and down this thread. In fact what is happening is that you have cultural norms or intuitions that are taken for granted, and which have become so much a part of the cultural taboo that they are no longer susceptible to rational scrutiny. " 'The Woman at the Well,' therefore empathy is the best," is a sort of shorthand for this form of cultural indoctrination.

Further, what happens in every culture is that the most strongly indoctrinated doctrines are automatically associated with the most revered figures, whether those figures are Jesus Christ, Gautama Buddha, or Alexander the Great. Those things that the common people deem to be the highest truths (e.g. "empathy is supreme") become automatically associated with those who are viewed as the most important truth-tellers and authorities (e.g. Jesus).
 
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This phenomenon can be found up and down this thread. In fact what is happening is that you have cultural norms or intuitions that are taken for granted, and which have become so much a part of the cultural taboo that they are no longer susceptible to rational scrutiny. " 'The Woman at the Well,' therefore empathy is the best," is a sort of shorthand for this form of cultural indoctrination.

Further, what happens in every culture is that the most strongly indoctrinated doctrines are automatically associated with the most revered figures, whether those figures are Jesus Christ, Gautama Buddha, or Alexander the Great. Those things that the common people deem to be the highest truths (e.g. "empathy is supreme") become automatically associated with those who are viewed as the most important truth-tellers and authorities (e.g. Jesus).

Misrepresenting my position and trying to make it appear as if it can be conflated with that of the Left isn't going to win you any points here, brother Zippy.

Don't you have some universalists to go beat up on?
 
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Misrepresenting my position and trying to make it appear as if it can be conflated with that of the Left isn't going to win you any points here, brother Zippy.
Your failure to represent your position and distinguish it from the Left is of your own making, Philo. And the fact that you think that post was somehow specifically anti-Left is rather significant in highlighting the reservations you have about your own holdings.
 
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Your failure to represent your position and distinguish it from the Left is of your own making, Philo.

You're the only one here who is saying this. I've already qualified it here and on another thread quite amply, and I'm not going to rewrite it all for you here, dear brother. I'm sorry you feel left out.

But I'm quite sure that no one on the Left here on CF has mistaken my position as being exactly their own.
 
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I've already qualified it here and on another thread quite amply
You've said that over three times now, and never managed to even provide a link to the alleged thread. Think about that.

You're the only one here who is saying this.
I am the third that I know of. Others have also asked you to say what you mean by empathy vs. compassion, to no avail.

I can see that I'm wasting my time here.
 
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You've said that over three times now, and never managed to even provide a link to the alleged thread. Think about that.

You're smart guy, and I know you can find the relevant posts. Go find them and cease your needling.
 
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Except that it was Christ Himself who pointed out that the laws of Moses were neither divinely inspired nor immutable, rather they were created simply in acquiescence to the prevailing Jewish culture. As cultures change, laws change.
Ya sure `bout that? The text of "The Law" (aka Torah) indicates most of laws are given in the form:

And Yahweh said to Moses " law law law law law".

Sure looks like they are not just claimed to be divinely inspired, but divinely dictated.

Then Jesus (at least according to "Matthew", but if you want to Matthew just be putting words in the mouth of Jesus to disagree with Paul who does want to absolve "gentiles" of the Torah laws, that's fine with me. No skin of my back.) says that the law should be followed fully, changing nothing until the end of the world. I get why Christians don't want to follow the law -- pulled pork sandwiches are awesome.
 
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”Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her weeping, did groan in the spirit, and troubled himself, and he said, ‘Where have ye laid him?’ they say to him, ‘Sir, come and see;’ Jesus wept.“
‭‭John‬ ‭11‬:‭33‬-‭35‬ ‭YLT98‬‬

Does the above Scripture shed any light on the ability of Jesus to share in empathy? Personally, I think Jesus was both, feeling sympathy (“did groan in the spirit”) and entering in to empathy (“and troubled himself”) for those around him who were in pain. I look at his entering in to a world filled with pain and suffering, which is our just deserts for our disobedience, as an act of empathy.

He could have said, I told you this was going to happen if you disobeyed me. You made your bed, now lie in it. His humanity was on full display. Some witnessed it and responded with like compassion, others witnessed the same and left, feeling compelled to report this incident they witnessed.

I think Chuck is circumventing compassion under the guise of not espousing sin in people’s lives. I actually find it pretty disgusting, and disheartening, that someone would take another persons “choice”, to act upon an “opportunity” to share in someone’s pain, in to an act of sin.

So no, I do not agree with Chuck Kirk. In fact, I think his own words come across, “to me”, as pompous, arrogant and divisive. My reply to Chuck’s statement is:

”Hatred awaketh contentions, And over all transgressions love covereth.“
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭10‬:‭12‬ ‭YLT98‬‬
 
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Ya sure `bout that? The text of "The Law" (aka Torah) indicates most of laws are given in the form:

And Yahweh said to Moses " law law law law law".
Sure looks like they are not just claimed to be divinely inspired, but divinely dictated.

This is gonna get a little more involved than I would've liked, but you're a smart guy, so hopefully your ability to follow along is better than my ability to explain.

Scholars may argue about the exact number, but I'm actually willing to grant you that God personally dictated all 613 Mitzvot commandments... because it doesn't make any difference.

The question isn't about their source, it's about why they are what they are. Since I'm admittedly not a biblical scholar, I'm also not an expert on the Torah, so as always, take this with a grain of salt.

In agreement with Christianity the Talmud teaches that there were two sets of Ten commandments, but that the first set, which was carved by God himself, was later destroyed, and that the second set was carved by Moses in corroboration with God. Supposedly the first set was destroyed because men were incapable of keeping them. Thus the second set was created with a direct eye on the traditions of men. Because only then could men be expected to adhere to them.

Which is why Jesus says that it was only because of the hardness of men's hearts that Moses allowed them to put away their wives. It's also why Jesus says that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. But that commandment would've been too hard for men to keep, and so the 613 Mitzvot commandments were written not with God's divine inspiration in mind, but with men's flaws.

Christ then gives us just two commandments, without any clarification about how to keep them other than the story of the good Samaritan, and the admonition that whatsoever you do unto the least of these, you do unto me. We then mistakenly believe that if we keep the 613 Mitzvot commandments that we will by default keep Christ's commandments as well, but that's simply not true.

The priest and the Levite may have been really good at keeping the commandments, but that doesn't mean that they loved their neighbor, conversely in loving his neighbor the Samaritan demonstrated that the laws were moot. He had accomplished by nature that which the law couldn't accomplish by obedience.

The problem may have been that the priest and the Levite mistakenly used the commandments about ritual impurity to unknowingly avoid Christ's commandment to love thy neighbor. Sadly, that seems to be what people such as @Servus are doing today, using the commandments against homosexuality in order to circumvent the commandment to love thy neighbor.

Okay, after rereading it I must admit that that's a muddled mess, but I haven't got the time nor the patience to rewrite it. So as before, if you have any questions, just ask, maybe I'll answer, and maybe I won't.
 
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The problem may have been that the priest and the Levite mistakenly used the commandments about ritual impurity to unknowingly avoid Christ's commandment to love thy neighbor. Sadly, that seems to be what people such as @Servus are doing today, using the commandments against homosexuality in order to circumvent the commandment to love thy neighbor.
Hogwash. I've clearly stated that empathy, or as you're saying now, love your neighbor, is being misused to gaslight Christians into advocating, promoting and celebrating LGBTQQIP2SA+ PRIDE.

Homosexuality, same-sex marriage, bisexuality, transsexualism and transgenderism may not be promoted* on CF...
* Promotion is defined as encouragement of the progress, growth, or acceptance of something including advertising and publicity.

 
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... in loving his neighbor the Samaritan demonstrated that the laws were moot. He had accomplished by nature that which the law couldn't accomplish by obedience.
Why would you think that acting naturally and being obedient to God's law are somehow at odds? Keeping God's laws make us happy in this life, not sad.

I think it also important to recall that when Jesus forgave sins, He also commanded the forgiven one to go and sin no more. Empathy does not moot the law.
 
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