Doing my head in!

[djdavey]

Hi everyone, just wanted to hear some of your thoughts or advice on this:

I have worked at my current job now for over 2 years, nearly 3 and I get on with everyone there and we all say hiya etc how are you bla bla (it's not a big place only about 20 if that work here).

However there is this one girl who works there and has done for as long as me really but she left for a bit then came back, and she never talks to me at ALL.

She does not even say hiya etc or smile she walks past me and looks other way, I did try talking to her for a bit like saying hi etc but as i got no answer it kind of did my head in and I thought forget it.

I don't think anyone at work has notcied we don't talk to each other as no one has said anything about it to me before now, but then one night I was on a night out with my friends and on our way home I heard someone shout my name so I look round and there is this girl a bit merry I would say, and she was like "Oh this is my friend Dave who I work with bla bla" and was like a totaly new person.

Then back in work she was back to her normal self and never said a word about the night and kept on blanking me.

A friend who I was with on the night (who is a girl) reckons she likes me and thats why she does not talk to me as she is to shy etc.

I mean don't get me wrong she is a nice looking girl etc but she smokes and I hear she drinks alot too so not really my cup of tea lol.

It just does my head in that everyone else talks to me barr this one girl.

Any ideas thoughts etc would be great thanks.

 

[MacCanann]

Does she act like that towards eveyone or just you?

 

[djdavey]

just me, she talks to the rest.

 

[Jedah]

just me, she talks to the rest.

Almost anytime a women gives you this sort of special treatment, she either hates you or really want's you.

I'd ask her out.

 

[Opalsunset]

Hi Dave,
This is interesting because one of my friends I am close with acts a lot like her towards this guy she was convinced she was in love with (Yeah, don't ask) When she would see him at Choir rehearsal or at church, she would make sure she wouldn't make eye contact, or she would walk by him and purposefully not say anything to him. The only thing is he never reciprocated by saying hello or anything, so after a while she blamed him for being a jerk and decided she didn't like him anymore...
I don't know if this helps but her demeanor to him was very staunch, though he was all she could talk about or even think about most of the time. She might very well like you.

 

[djdavey]

ok ta thanks for your help, I might start saying hi to her again just to be nice.