Does she like me?

[churchgoer123]

I would have to agree. there are many words that atheists consider swear words, that I, as a Christian, don't. The F words isn't always a swear word - depends on the context

He was F'n around downtown with his friends - I would'nt say that's "cursing"

F you buddy!! - cursing

F you buddy (jokingly) - not swearing


see where I'm goin?

Anyway, before I go off on a tangent...

I talked to her the other day, and she was, again, real quiet. I didn't ask her to the prom, cuz the situation wasn't the best.

However here's what I'm plannin on doing: I'm gonna talk to her in person, tell her I'm falling in love with her, and ask her, while looking in her eyes.

I'm gonna dress nice, and wear cologne, and yes- take some "medicine"\

haha

does that sound "cool"???

 

[MrDude]

no no no no, do NOT tell her you're falling in love with her. Everything else sounds good, but LEAVE that part out.

 

[churchgoer123]

well, I want to flatter her. She knows I like her. It just seems right to do that

What would be wrong with that? I guess I'll leave that out though,

but I don't know, considering she knows I like her, wouldn't that "turn her on"? not sexually, but romantically

 

[churchgoer123]

youngins make the world fun though...... how old redcorvette?

 

[MrDude]

well, I want to flatter her. She knows I like her. It just seems right to do that

What would be wrong with that? I guess I'll leave that out though,

but I don't know, considering she knows I like her, wouldn't that "turn her on"? not sexually, but romantically

Not it would not. Telling her your falling in love with her could actually scare her off. Don't move fast. Take it very slowly.

 

[churchgoer123]

i know her... i don't think that would scare her off. However, I'll say "I really like you...." instead. If I can get a girl in a isolated area (nothing sexual) I think I could actually talk to her and say whats realy on my mind....

HEY ill ask her to lunch!!! YEAH!!!!
no, my car is a S.H.

 

[churchgoer123]

i would never ditch a girl. though.

 

[churchgoer123]

alright... more happened since then

i havn't asked her yet, but here's why

I really can't figure out if she likes me, or hates me. it's one of the two. she's displayed SO many signs it's sick. she seems very ackward around me.

she's either:
1. nervous cause she likes me

or

2. Uncomfortable cuz she doesn't

now before i make my move, i have one question to ask. (considering the fact that i have a handle on the rest of the situation... this is all i need to know ot figure this whole mess out, this next question.)

the question: (for the ladies)

alright: would you ever stare at a guy you like at lunch ALL OF THE TIME, and pay attention to him ALL OF THE TIME, then look away when he looks at you.....

if you really weren't intersted at all? but thought he liked you?

Would you ever pay full attention to and become a totally different person (self concoiousness, nervousness, etc.) and constantly stare at him if you really hated him????

 

[red_head_4ever]

Not it would not. Telling her your falling in love with her could actually scare her off. Don't move fast. Take it very slowly.

Agreed. If a guy I liked told me he loved me without building up to it and before I was ready, I'd be totally freaked out.

 

[red_head_4ever]

alright... more happened since then

i havn't asked her yet, but here's why

I really can't figure out if she likes me, or hates me. it's one of the two. she's displayed SO many signs it's sick. she seems very ackward around me.

she's either:
1. nervous cause she likes me

or

2. Uncomfortable cuz she doesn't

now before i make my move, i have one question to ask. (considering the fact that i have a handle on the rest of the situation... this is all i need to know ot figure this whole mess out, this next question.)

the question: (for the ladies)

alright: would you ever stare at a guy you like at lunch ALL OF THE TIME, and pay attention to him ALL OF THE TIME, then look away when he looks at you.....

if you really weren't intersted at all? but thought he liked you?

Would you ever pay full attention to and become a totally different person (self concoiousness, nervousness, etc.) and constantly stare at him if you really hated him????

I would only stare at a guy like that if I liked him unless he was saying something that I just wanted to listen to, lol.