If that is how you interpreted my posts then my apologies. I am certainly no beacon of moral perfection and re-reading my posts I don't actually see where I said that... go figure. But if it makes you feel more "right" I'll just sit in my pigeon hole quietly.

I thought this was a philosophical discussion on morality not a morality "pageant."
No offense meant... but you have to admit that it gets quite difficult to argue anything about Christianity when Christians themselves cannot agree on just who is a Christian.
And this
is indeed a problem with personal claims, at least indirect ones.
You wanted to define Christians in a certain way, in order to counter my argument. That implies that the people I mentioned do not "follow Jesus example". Than again implies that you, who act differently, do that.
And here again we come back to the problem of different, even contradicting Christian "absolute morals".
You think killing is never morally justified.
You would feel awful.
You follow Jesus' example, so Jesus must feel the same. Those who don't feel like you do... do they follow Jesus' example?
What about those who followed the Mosaic laws. Didn't eat shellfish, because it was an "abomination". Abstained from blood, because it was an "abomination". Killed homosexuals, because... you get the idea?
What about those who killed the Jews, because they sincerely believed they were subhuman?
What about those who killed the Amalekites, because God himself commanded them to do?
Personally, I like your set of morals a lot more than that of a lot of other Christians I have met. But they are still subjective. They can and are still based on human reasoning, human empathy and human compassion... not divine decree.