Well, you are the one who has to live with your character.
What does "valid" even mean, in conjunction with "opinion"?
No, I have just informed you about my opinion. I just have informed what I won´t tolerate. What you do with this infomation is entirely up to you.
If you feel that e.g. lying for Jesus is morally ok, you have no reason to feel ashamed or guilty for doing it. Don´t let anybody shame you or instill guilt feelings in you.
Everything else is merely a projection from your position as a moral objectivist.
You were the one who asked for forgiveness, after all.
I am the one who feels he isn´t in the position to forgive you for whatever you consider your shortcomings or wrongdoings.
What´s odd about me having an opinion/preferences? What makes you assume I don´t have opinions/preferences? What´s odd about me acting upon my opinion/preferences?

Have you been making assumptions again?
I am going to speak as you speak for a moment and simply say I thank you for sharing your opinion with me.
You see how easy that was?
Anyone who is in your position can do and say the things you do.
That is easy. I lived the way you do for many years. It was easy. It was not hard at all. Do as I please, believe what I please, come and go as I please, pretend I am the be all and end all and the only one around whom the world revolves.
It is easy to be self-centered and egotistical. Nothing hard in that. To stand aloof from the world and pretend it is all an illusion.
It is people like you that remind me of how I was and how God wrought in me something that someone like you could never do on your own. Even if you desired to be displaced from the center of the universe (or should I say,
your universe), you would have no way of doing so.
You cannot be what I am. The desire must be present first and even if the desire is present, one cannot change their nature in and of themselves.
But you do not envy me at all. In fact you may feel sorry for me and I understand, for when I was like you I felt sorry for all them that did not worship themselves as I did.
But your posts reek of pride. It oozes out of much of what you write on here. You are so prideful that in your pride you attempt to mask it so as to not be too evident. Vanity rules you but it is also your weakness. You cannot tolerate being called out or exposed. You let it be known when you are slighted, but only off-handedly.
I predict that you will respond to this post by addressing a point here and there as if to portray yourself as someone who is slightly amused but at best really disinterested in what I have written, when, in reality you will be greatly perplexed that someone could so clearly call you out on who and what you are.
Your time spent on this forum is more of an amusement to you than anything, much like many other things in your life. You are a pleasure seeking, entertainment loving person. Driven by your pleasure seeking, you have come to view the world in such a way as to afford you justification for living exactly the way you want to.
But be warned, a day will come soon when you will die. In that day, you will realize that you indeed are the determiner of your own fate.