cruztacean said:
People. They can be such.... well, never mind.
What amazes me is how many parents (and even non-parents, as in Miss I-know's case) fall all over themselves quoting (or mis-quoting) Proverbs 13:24 and Ephesians 6:1, but they stop reading Ephesians 6 before they get to verse 4 which says
And they certainly overlook Matthew 18:6. Straight from the mouth of Jesus Christ: Don't you hurt a child, or you'd be better off at the bottom of the ocean.
Now, if you guys want me to shut up and quit preaching, I'll do it. In this case it seems I'm preaching to the choir anyway, since I'm not seeing much of that kind of thinking around here. It's just that the issue means so much to me. I wish I'd known these things when I was a brand new parent.
Oyi.... I sorta thought you'd redeemed yoursef a bit in this thread by keepin a bit of a level head an backin off the horrible child beater parents... but it sure looks to me ya slipped a bit.
This is what's got my goat here, an I'm not lookin to send this thread into the depths of a debate, but I'd jes be real careful before I started sayin "anyone" who spanks thier children, "hurts" them... an then should end up at the bottom of the sea. I think in fact you are mis quotin Matthew here. Jesus was not talkin bout disicpline anyways.
Like wise, you can see in the bible that the use of the word rod, while not always a pyhsical board used to spank etc, is used to disicpline.
[bible]2 Samuel 7:14[/bible]
Is there anythin wrong wit spankin accordin to the bible? Nope, not so far as I've ever seen. It really annoys me folks who think spankers are deliberitly tryin to inflict pain er sufferin on their children when it's got nuthin to do wit that at all. The sting in thier backside is merely a reminder of what they done wrong, it's reinforced into their mind cause it equates wit sumthin I figure. Now if'n you don't wanna spank, don't. But bes be careful, anyone ought, when they start holdin spankers in such horrible light. Here's a couple more scriptures that reflect rod to physical implmentation.
[bible]Proverbs 10:13[/bible]
[bible]Proverbs 22:15[/bible]
Folks often miss Proverbs 22:15.... but it's one I can fully understand... espcially as a kid when I'd go off half cocked bullheaded, gittin whacked for my screw up was what I personally needed to be corrected.... ya know I absouletly disagree wit time outs er groundins etc.... cause as a kid, when I got in trouble it was dealt wit swiftly an immediatly, once it was over wit it was done... not to be spoken of agin. But when I'd git grounded er sent to my room................................................... Boy howdy I jes had all sorts of time to git more an more hacked off, started dreamin up horrible violent thoughts, wanted to hurt my parents er whoever it was that was forcin me to stay in my room er grounded, an what's worse, I'd try to justify my actions er blame someone else.... it was a joke. I screwed up, I was told how an why I screwed up, I got spanked an that was the end of it. Over wit, at the most in half a day er so, dependin on what was goin on. I think time outs, an groundins are a joke... but I'm not goin to sit here an say that folks who employ these methods are heathens from hell.
Folks have disagreed wit me in the past, but I feel very strongly bout this, I find a parent who doesn't disicpline er punish thier children, allows them to git away wit murder er throwin fits in public etc, to be more abusive then anyone else, aside from say sumthin sexual etc. Those kids grow up, are in constant trouble, treat the world like it's their own personal play ground an act like everone an everthin else in the world owes em sumthin. Give me half an hour wit em... I garentee I'll put the fear of God in em.... (Now I know non-spankers took that comment to mean I'd spank em, welll maybe I would. But a disappointed look an an explanation of why one is goin to git a spankin always hurt my folks more then the physical pain I got out of it.) Folks don't care anymore if they disappoint someone, er their parents er loved ones, they have no honor they jes don't care. Folks used to respect folks, an even if they didn't love em, they tried not to disappoint em, school teachers an what not.
Reckon, I'll quit rantin for a bit...