To be born again do we have to surrender to His will?
John 1:12-13
So, on the contrary: One cannot surrender to God unless one has been born again. This surrender is not a loss of our volition, it is the freedom that comes from a new life in Jesus Christ by the power of the Spirit.
We do not lose our free will when we have been adopted by God by His grace; since in truth the sinful will of unregenerate man is not truly free. "Without faith it is impossible to please God." So that the volition of the flesh is not pleasing to God, because man under his own power is opposed to God.
When we read in Romans that we were once God's enemies, it does not mean that God was our enemy, but that we were enemies to God. So the enmity of the flesh against God is from us to Him.
It is this slavery and bondage which God has liberated us from so freely and wonderfully by His grace. To enjoy the freedom of God means that we are no longer God's enemies, but God's children by His grace. And since we are children, we are free.
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And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, 'Abba! Father!' So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God." - Galatians 4:6-7
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For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery." - Galatians 5:1
So when we consider, in light of our Baptism, how full and wonderful is the grace of God who having joined us to Christ and given us new life in Him, that we should be slaves to sin no longer, but slaves to God. But the slave of God is no mere slave, but is a ransomed slave, a freeman. And the ransom price was the life of God's own Son. And so now free to love and serve God we have true liberty; for what we had formerly was not liberty but captivity. The shackles and chains of sin and death is not liberty, but Christ has made us free. He has opened wide the doors, prepared the banquet hall, called us brothers, that we should sit at His Table and dwell in the House of God forever.
-CryptoLutheran