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Do you really think He wants this?

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Kids love the idea of Santa. It gives them the opportunity to have some innocent fun and excitement. Why would you want to deprive them of that?
Anyway, it does them no harm. I am still waiting to meet an adult who is currently having life issues because of the day they realized Santa didn't exist.

You clearly did not answer my question.
Do you think Jesus would want us celebrating His holy day by lying to our kids about a ' false idol' that makes kids greedy? Kids know there is something 'off' about Santa.
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I don't have kids, but i think is not good either lying to them, or tell them the truth either since kids can have their fantasies and they are innocent so why burst their bubble, i don't know.
Why cant they have gifts without a bubble? The question is do you think Jesus wants us celebrating His holy day by lying to kids? Its a yes or no question.
 
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Why is it a holy day? Romans 14:5 One person regards one day above another, another regards every day alike. Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind.
14:22
Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.
14:23 But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and whatever is not from faith is sin.
In Christ
Christmas at my house has nothing to do with Santa. And every day is communion with God.
That is wonderful. Did you ever feel the pressures of society to push Santa on them? It can be hard to combat- I know I felt it and it was a strong force. Just as I can't get anyone on here to say " Yes I think Jesus would want us lying to our kids." And explaining why or " No, Jesus probably would not approve of that would prefer our gift of holiness." Everyone forgets everything we do and say is being recorded by an angel into the book that is our life. We will be held accountable for all of it- so how we celebrate a day that we have devoted in His name in His honor should really be celebrated as if He were sitting right there because He is! If you knew Jesus was coming to your house this Christmas, would you do anything different?
 
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Why cant they have gifts without a bubble? The question is do you think Jesus wants us celebrating His holy day by lying to kids? Its a yes or no question.

I don't think lying to them is good like i said.
 
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Giving worldly goods is good, because it forces people to practice giving. In a selfish society, that is critically important. I already save my money and avoid debt for the most part, so I need to practice being open-handed too. Christmas provides another opportunity for me to do that.

Lying to children about Santa is not something I believe in. My parents didn't seem to benefit, because I would constantly ask Santa for the big-ticket items they told me all year that we couldn't afford. Fortunately, I didn't have a major crisis of faith when I found out Santa wasn't real (I had suspected he wasn't real for a while at the time). IIRC, that happened before I was baptized. The Gospel has much stronger footing than Santa Claus, so I really don't see why anyone should assume that any reasonable person would be led to believe that Jesus isn't real just because Santa isn't.


Maybe when writing their names out? That's still one heck of a reach.

A reach? My 7 yr. Old kid came to me and said " I dont want Santa on any of our stuff this year Mama." I said" well why not son?" He said " I went to write Santa a letter in school and I wrote Satan and I got scared and think satan is trying to steal Jesus birthday. He wears a costume but kids know hes bad because they are so scared of him and he wears red like a devil and kids find out he isn't real and then think Jesus isn't real either and I don't like Santa. I said " Wow son, you really thought about this huh?" And he started to cry and said " All kids care about is what Santas bringing them and they don't even know about Jesus and it makes me mad and sad." That was my first eye- opener to the santa idea. And it wasn't reaching.
 
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“A lie is a lie.” I agree with you.
According to one theory, Christmas is not His birthday. It ’s another story that is far from the point, but we can celebrate His birthday on the day. Of course, we should thank and praise God everyday. However, it is good that celebrating it on some day specially, I think.

By the way, His birthday is sad day of Heavenly Father. Father gave us his only son in the day and Jesus’ birth was a start point to His death. I think we should thank and praise God of the Trinity while savor that harsh reality.

Santa’s story is fun to children. However, they should know that Jesus’ real and the importance of being grateful for it more than Santa’s funny lie.
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Fun to children? Kids are terrified of santa because there is something wrong with him.
The question though is not what do you think of it- it is " Do you think Jesus would want us celebrating a day we have chosen to Honor his Holy birth by lying to kids about a ' false idol'? I understand the rest. I mean I get it .
 
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Ever heard of the fallacy: "poisoning the well"?
Poisoning the well - Wikipedia.

this is the question you asked:

That's the first fallacy in your thread, the second would be:
False dilemma - Wikipedia

you than claim there's only two ways to answer (yes or no) to a question that has several different answers to it. So, let's recap: you ask peoples opinions (which actually can't be right or wrong, they're simply an opinion), you frame the question to try and make only one one answer "correct", you claim there's only two ways to answer the question (when there's several). And those are just the opening ones.
But my favorite is this part:

You actually have know idea what how I celebrate Christmas. Or don't. What you do know is: "I believe people should celebrate (or not) however they feel led, and not judge how other people do (or don't) celebrate it." That's it. That's all the information you have about what I believe. OH! I will tell you this much: I'll be drinking coffee no matter what happens. Or doesn't. :coffee:
tulc(is thinking about getting some more coffee even as he posts this) :coffee:

The title of the thread is " Do you think He would want this?" It is not a poisoned well. Santa is clearly a false idol. He is not alive, hes all kids care about at Christmas, and he represents material goods, worldly things, greed and lust. If Santa represented the gifts that the wise men gave to Jesus at His birth, it would be different. But sadly he doesn't. Kids get more than 3 gifts and no one mentions the gifts of the wise men in the commercialized story of elves and reindeer and cookies and ho ho ho. The only thing real about Santa is him going down the chimney into fire. That's it. There is a reason for that. And you are right. I dont know how you celebrate Christmas but you didn't say " 'No, I dont think Jesus would want His day celebrated that way'. Your answer is more of a " Yes I think Jesus would want us lying to our kids about Santa and dont judge me"
And I was wondering why you think Jesus would want that?
 
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I kind of think saint Paul would take issue it with for all kinds of reasons based on what is being claimed, and even who is teaching and whether or not they have any authority to do so.

Are you talking about me? The question is ' Do you think Jesus would want us lying to our kids about Santa on a day that we have chosen to honor Him and His holy birth?" I have not decided anything for anyone. It is a yes or no question and I was hoping someone could answer it and state why or why not. Not how THEY felt but I mean, we've all asked WWJD! I just wondered if people thought this is what Jesus would want! I am no better! I celebrated Christmas the Santa way for a couple of years but it didnt feel right. It might feel right for others and thats fine if they thought Jesus would want them celebrating a day we have chosen to Honor His Holy birth that way but it was to get people to not go through the motions of what non- believers are doing because unlike them, we will be held accountable for our actions even more because of what we believe and who we are. We should think about how we celebrate it and my authority on asking it is because I love everyone on here very much and would hate to know that I was given this revelation of it being wrong and didn't at least get other Christians to at least think about what they were doing and why. We as Christians cannot be so naive at this stage of the game and think satan is going to let us have a pure and holy day without trying to lie to us and get us to stumble. Satan does not love you on Christmas. He still wants to drag us all to hell, so I am asking this with a good heart and good intent.
 
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Christmas is of pagan Sun god origin and had nothing to do with the birth of JESUS. You may also want to google the pagan origins of the Christmas tree

The unexpected origins of popular Christmas traditions
Mithra, god of the sun, was born on December 25, day of the winter solstice
Why Christmas is held on 25th December
Mazda Publishers - December 25: The Birthday of Mithra and Jesus
Mithra: The Pagan Christ

Much paganism was introduced into the Roman Catholic Church under the guise of trying to reach the masses who were pagan. Today we have paganism under the guise of Christianity being taught in our Churches. This is only a glimpse. You can google a bit more if you like about the Easter bunny if your interested and the pagan fertility rites. BABYLON has fallen God is calling His people out from following these man made teachings and traditions back to the pure Word of God - Revelation 18:1-5

God bless
I know this but people won't stop celebrating it so I was merely focusing on how they are celebrating it. Christmas was a " ploy" to trick Christians to celebrate their pagan holiday with them.
 
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Please don't tell me that Father Christmas is not real.

I've been a very good boy this year. I've done all my housework and chores. I've tried to be nice to everyone. I've even splashed out on boxes of mince pies for Father Christmas and Rudolph to enjoy when they put my presents under my tree. I've also got them a box of sweets.

If Father Christmas is not real, then I am going to have to eat all those sugary things myself. It's just as well that I still have the telephone number for the tooth fairy.
 
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A reach? My 7 yr. Old kid came to me and said " I dont want Santa on any of our stuff this year Mama." I said" well why not son?" He said " I went to write Santa a letter in school and I wrote Satan and I got scared and think satan is trying to steal Jesus birthday. He wears a costume but kids know hes bad because they are so scared of him and he wears red like a devil and kids find out he isn't real and then think Jesus isn't real either and I don't like Santa. I said " Wow son, you really thought about this huh?" And he started to cry and said " All kids care about is what Santas bringing them and they don't even know about Jesus and it makes me mad and sad." That was my first eye- opener to the santa idea. And it wasn't reaching.

It sounds like you have a wonderful child...

I do think you should sit down with him though and actually explain Satan and temptation though, he seems to have a fairly commercialized version of it all in his thinking - just going from your post here.

Red like a devil isn't satan, it's a commercial version. Satan appears like an angel of light and we have to discern according to scripture how to avoid temptations he lays in our path.

Be a good conversation sometime.
 
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That is a great answer. So do you think Jesus would want His holy day to be overshadowed by lying to kids about Santa?
Maybe we should first establish whether Jesus even wanted a "holy day" to begin with, let alone on December 25th...
 
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You clearly did not answer my question.
Do you think Jesus would want us celebrating His holy day by lying to our kids about a ' false idol' that makes kids greedy? Kids know there is something 'off' about Santa. View attachment 289961

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This picture is misleading, unless you can confirm that Santa elicits this same response in all children.
Hopefully you can discern the difference between the act of lying to kids and the act of placing the
more high-reactive ones next to a brightly-dressed stranger.
 
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Do you really think Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior wants us celebrating a day in His honor by giving worldly goods and lying through our teeth to our children? They think Santa is real, and they hear its Jesus Birthday- then they find out Santa is NOT real and subconsciously assume Jesus isn't real either. When do we stop this dangerous tradition of lying on Christmas? So the question is " Do you think Jesus would want us celebrating His holy birth by lying to our kids about Santa?

* this question is not to condemn anyone as I am guilty of doing this with my children until I thought about it and I am just wondering if any other Christians have thought about it! Do you think He would want this?
No he does not want this. What Jesus require of us is to give up our lives in this world. After we do that, we enter into his body. So he is the head and we are his body , doing his work. There are no days that are more special than the other. Everyday is a Holy day, because we have entered into his rest. Christmas is apart of the world. We are in it not of it.
 
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You clearly did not answer my question.
Do you think Jesus would want us celebrating His holy day by lying to our kids about a ' false idol' that makes kids greedy? Kids know there is something 'off' about Santa. View attachment 289961

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Your picture is not how most kids react to meeting Santa, and in my experience, greedy kids are usually the result of parents who overindulge and spoil their children.
I have no idea how Jesus would want people to celebrate Christmas, but I would like to think he would want children to feel happy.
Tell you what though. I'm sure you believe in prayer, so why don't you ask him? Get it straight from the horse's mouth so to speak.
Let us know what he says, won't you?
 
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I just wondered if people thought this is what Jesus would want!

Many years ago, I was a graduate student in psychology, in one of my classes where we covered communication and the fact in ordinary conversation most questions are not legitimate questions where you are asking something that you truly do not know the answer to, but rather expressions of opinion (of varying degrees, from the tentative to the not so tentative).

And that really is the case with this thread and your questioning. It is like some kind of passive aggressive rhetorically devise thingy where you harangue people into holiness through the power of persistence and people not being wise to your Forced Dilemma questioning.
 
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A reach? My 7 yr. Old kid came to me and said " I dont want Santa on any of our stuff this year Mama." I said" well why not son?" He said " I went to write Santa a letter in school and I wrote Satan and I got scared and think satan is trying to steal Jesus birthday. He wears a costume but kids know hes bad because they are so scared of him and he wears red like a devil and kids find out he isn't real and then think Jesus isn't real either and I don't like Santa. I said " Wow son, you really thought about this huh?" And he started to cry and said " All kids care about is what Santas bringing them and they don't even know about Jesus and it makes me mad and sad." That was my first eye- opener to the santa idea. And it wasn't reaching.
Thank you for clarifying. However, adults shouldn't go by 7-year-old logic. They need to impart adult logic to the 7-year-olds. Specifically, it sounds like he misspelled Santa and he needs to be reassured that he didn't really write to Satan, and just because the mythical representations of each of them has them wearing red suits doesn't make them anywhere close to being the same. If the school is public, what they can teach about Jesus is going to be limited, but Santa is safe because he's used as a secular symbol for Christmas. Have you taught him about the historical St. Nicholas in an age-appropriate manner?
 
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(snip) And you are right. I dont know how you celebrate Christmas
Ahh! Thank you for admitting it.

but you didn't say " 'No, I dont think Jesus would want His day celebrated that way'.
And you're right again! I didn't say that.

Your answer is more of a " Yes I think Jesus would want us lying to our kids about Santa
Ahhh! And you were doing so well, right up until you decided to pretend to paraphrase me with this part. :sigh:
and dont judge me"
A more accurate summation would be "don't judge others because they think/celebrate Christmas differently than you do." Because, to be honest, I stopped worrying about how others judge me personally a very long time ago.

And I was wondering why you think Jesus would want that?
Well, once again, to be more accurate I'd say we're back to Romans 14:4 situation:
4 Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.

5 One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. 6 The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. 7 For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself. 8 For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord's. 9 For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living.

10 Why do you pass judgment on your brother? Or you, why do you despise your brother? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God; 11 for it is written,

“As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me,
and every tongue shall confess to God.”

12 So then each of us will give an account of himself to God.
and I'd say "Santa" would be one of those things it's not any of our business to care/judge about. You don't want to have him as part of your Christmas? Than don't. You do want him as part of it? Have fun. In the end, it's none of our business one way or the other. Our job is to follow the Lord as best we can.
tulc(hopes that answers those questions)
 
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Please don't tell me that Father Christmas is not real.

I've been a very good boy this year. I've done all my housework and chores. I've tried to be nice to everyone. I've even splashed out on boxes of mince pies for Father Christmas and Rudolph to enjoy when they put my presents under my tree. I've also got them a box of sweets.

If Father Christmas is not real, then I am going to have to eat all those sugary things myself. It's just as well that I still have the telephone number for the tooth fairy.
hahaha! Good one! I know its a big bummer but we know Santa is a lie and that the devil is the father of all lies. I don't know how we let him in as a part of the Lords birth but he took over and it is scary. I went in to Michaels, the craft store and the place is decked out with every different kind of ornament, tree, craft, gingerbread house, Santa all over the place. I asked them where their nativity scenes were. The lady took me to a back corner and said " I think we only offered 2 this year." They were in stock- one was the small glass figurines, no manger. The other was larger painted porcelain figurines- no manger. I said. " Wow. That's it? Im sorry, that makes me sad." I fought back tears leaving there and got outside, looked up at the sky and said " I am so sorry." I was apologizing for everyone.
 
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