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Do YOU have a crush on anyone?

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He said yes!!!! Just as friends, of course.

I want to scream but I can't cuz then I'd have to tell my host-family why I was screaming and then they would give me SOOO much crap about it after denying my crush for this guy since September.

Pray for me? That I and God would guard my heart in this?
 
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Aww! Crushes can be tough to shake. :sigh:
I so hate myself for it!

[BIBLE=Exodus 20:17]
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.
[/BIBLE]

Even given how slight it is, crushing on thy neighbour's girlfriend is not exactly morally correct, nor is it in any way helpful or otherwise productive.
 
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He said yes!!!! Just as friends, of course.

I want to scream but I can't cuz then I'd have to tell my host-family why I was screaming and then they would give me SOOO much crap about it after denying my crush for this guy since September.

Pray for me? That I and God would guard my heart in this?
good luck and be careful.....you need to need to actively choose to guard your heart..and if you dont start now, it will be harder later.

happy you have plans for v-day though. :)
 
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Aye, I do have a crush on a dear friend of mine. Oh, but it's so much more than a mere "crush!" Though I'm often hesitant to use the word because it's so loaded, I'm more and more convinced this is love. But ha! It's all in vain, for you see she's already involved with someone.

I must admit, this whole attraction took me by surprise. I became attracted to her personality first and only then did I start to become physically attracted to her (and oh! how beautiful she is to me now!). Yet even so, it is the person herself, the essence of who she is, that has me so terribly drawn to her.

What a dismal state it is to harbor secret, forbidden love. I'd rather suck down snake venom than have this love flowing through my veins.
 
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Aye, I do have a crush on a dear friend of mine. Oh, but it's so much more than a mere "crush!" Though I'm often hesitant to use the word because it's so loaded, I'm more and more convinced this is love. But ha! It's all in vain, for you see she's already involved with someone.

I must admit, this whole attraction took me by surprise. I became attracted to her personality first and only then did I start to become physically attracted to her (and oh! how beautiful she is to me now!). Yet even so, it is the person herself, the essence of who she is, that has me so terribly drawn to her.

What a dismal state it is to harbor secret, forbidden love. I'd rather suck down snake venom than have this love flowing through my veins.
awww :hug:
 
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Aye, I do have a crush on a dear friend of mine. Oh, but it's so much more than a mere "crush!" Though I'm often hesitant to use the word because it's so loaded, I'm more and more convinced this is love. But ha! It's all in vain, for you see she's already involved with someone.

I must admit, this whole attraction took me by surprise. I became attracted to her personality first and only then did I start to become physically attracted to her (and oh! how beautiful she is to me now!). Yet even so, it is the person herself, the essence of who she is, that has me so terribly drawn to her.

What a dismal state it is to harbor secret, forbidden love. I'd rather suck down snake venom than have this love flowing through my veins.
I have been in those shoes before and you have my sympathy. :sigh:
 
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Aye, I do have a crush on a dear friend of mine. Oh, but it's so much more than a mere "crush!" Though I'm often hesitant to use the word because it's so loaded, I'm more and more convinced this is love.

I...somehow doubt it's quite that.;) How well do you know this girl? And have you ever been in a relationship before? (not trying to demean you, by the way; it's just that I've been in this position before, and I don't want you to go through the pain of wasting your time and energy on something that's not going to happen)
 
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I...somehow doubt it's quite that.;) How well do you know this girl? And have you ever been in a relationship before? (not trying to demean you, by the way; it's just that I've been in this position before, and I don't want you to go through the pain of wasting your time and energy on something that's not going to happen)
I do not think it is love, for their is no evidence, at least from what we have been told, that it is requited.
 
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I live in an area where there aren't a lot of the types of women I'm interested in, so ixnay on the crushes.

What the hey! Seems like forever since I've seen a post from you!

Welcome back, or "Hi, I'm not stupid anymore!" whichever. :p

Love!
 
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What a dismal state it is to harbor secret, forbidden love. I'd rather suck down snake venom than have this love flowing through my veins.

True. I am dealing with the same thing.
 
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