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Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (6)

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no crushes but i have to admit i was excited today when i got a text message from someone i've been chatting with for awhile. LOL Nothing exciting though, he was just asking if I was in his town today for a fundraiser the radio station is involved in because he thought he saw me. I must have a twin in that town. ha ha (scary thought!)
 
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Go figure. I'm not dissuaded if a woman is somewhat uncomfortable in her own skin. That just means she's human. I actually feel more comfortable around people who feel awkward at times, because they're real. Not that I wouldn't try to help her feel better, but it seems like a strange measure to determine whether somebody is lovable.

I agree that giving off the wrong vibes is unattractive, but why worry about that sort of thing? Faking it works in the short term, but it doesn't address the underlying issues. In fact, it usually makes things worse. Just get busy being who you are, even when who you are seems "uncomfortable in the skin" to others. Sometimes, life is more about the journey than the destination. Relish the blessings in your life, even if they seem few and far between. Pray. Relax. Your relationship to the infinite/God is more important than what somebody may or may not think of you.

This isn't addressed to anybody in particular. I just felt like sharing.

Powerful words/advice. :thumbsup:
 
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Hey at this point, I just start crushing on myself. Flatter myself. Take myself out to eat.

Narcissisistic multi-personality vanity seems more productive than blind longing. :p :D
If you see any similar posts like that from me in the future, just ignore them. It's just my way of bumping the thread. ^_^
 
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Hey at this point, I just start crushing on myself. Flatter myself. Take myself out to eat.

Narcissisistic multi-personality vanity seems more productive than blind longing. :p :D

I have a coworker who just got engaged and for some reason that has made him behave exactly this way "narcissistic multi-personality vanity"...the man may love his fiancee but he seems to be more in love with himself lately....can you say annoying????
 
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I have a coworker who just got engaged and for some reason that has made him behave exactly this way "narcissistic multi-personality vanity"...the man may love his fiancee but he seems to be more in love with himself lately....can you say annoying????

haha. that would be annoying.
 
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oooooooooooooh yeah....

and I retract an earlier post...

I'm stupid if I think showing an interest in anyone is worth my effort so no...no crushes or interests here. I'll go retreat back to my nunnery....
I can't retract mine, but I will definetely head back to the mountains to look for my refined mountain woman :D

Which may mean, she's a female hunter who uses a GLOC instead of a shotgun to hunt deer (which secretly I'd get some kicks out of that) and instead of moonshine out of a bottle she tips wine out of the barrel, which again that'd be pretty darn cool. Now I just need to learn how to yoddle. :D
 
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Um....I have a crush...:blush: and I think it is growing. Kind of scary...:doh: Each time we talk it's like 3-4 hours and last night it was over 5. I am so thrilled though that we are just developing a friendship and not just rushing into anything because I don't think I can do that anymore...
 
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Um....I have a crush...:blush: and I think it is growing. Kind of scary...:doh: Each time we talk it's like 3-4 hours and last night it was 5. I am so thrilled though that we are just developing a friendship and not just rushing into anything because I don't think I can do that anymore...


good luck...or rather, Godspeed.
 
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uh....yeah....something like that.... ha ha

if the ammo lands in the right spot, i'm not gonna be worrying about spilled wine...

(yeah, i'm sick...)
You are sick, cuz what a mess that would be :p

Seriously though, I'm not sure how productive this talk is. You have value :thumbsup:
 
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