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Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (5)

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Ah yes... I know those :doh:

I think an sexual crush is quite nice.

You could still get one... if you turn romantic any time soon :p
What are those like? o_O?
Romantic huh? I wonder if it's inevitable..
 
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Come to think of it, I don't think I've seen an actual picture of my main crush. I just like a lot of what she has to say, and I like her style. Crazy of me, I know. :blush1:



Too good? lol... :whistle:

I know who she is (well, not 100% sure, but 99.9%), and I have always thought you two could make a good couple.

Two comments:
1. You have good taste! :thumbsup:
2. You guys should work it out. Time flies.
 
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I know who she is (well, not 100% sure, but 99.9%), and I have always thought you two could make a good couple.

Two comments:
1. You have good taste! :thumbsup:
2. You guys should work it out. Time flies.

I think a few of us might know who it is :holy:
 
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What are those like? o_O?
Romantic huh? I wonder if it's inevitable..
An asexual crush is me finding someone really cool and getting all giddy when I think of them, hoping that they "like" me (of course, I never realise or think that liking someone also results in sexual thoughts....) and being semi-obsessed over them (i.e. thinking about them, as in, stuff like what are they doing, was that smile meant for me, etc) and getting giddy over the thought of you dating... in a non-sexual way :p

Its everything people who want sex do... without the sex.
 
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An asexual crush is me finding someone really cool and getting all giddy when I think of them, hoping that they "like" me (of course, I never realise or think that liking someone also results in sexual thoughts....) and being semi-obsessed over them (i.e. thinking about them, as in, stuff like what are they doing, was that smile meant for me, etc) and getting giddy over the thought of you dating... in a non-sexual way :p

Its everything people who want sex do... without the sex.

I think I must be borderline asexual, cause this is exactly how I feel, too lol. Well, I know I'm not asexual, cause I know, when I'm in love, I want intimacy on every level. I'm not sure what I'd define myself as. I think sex is great and fine, but it's wayyyyy on the back burner of priorities for me when I'm married. I want it, but I don't want it to be expected, demanded, routine, etc. I never, ever want my sex life to consist of "eat dinner, kids to bed, brush teeth, turn off light, have sex, go to sleep"...GOD FORBID, I'd rather be single!!! I want it to be sudden, spontaneous, and sparse. I know. Weirdo.

Do you guys ever think that maybe your "asexual" status is a blessing from God, keeping you from temptation and sin UNTIL you find the right person and marry them? Then a major floodgate of "WHOA..." will be released on the honeymoon? In other words, maybe you aren't asexual at all; maybe your brains are doing things the right way?
 
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An asexual crush is me finding someone really cool and getting all giddy when I think of them, hoping that they "like" me (of course, I never realise or think that liking someone also results in sexual thoughts....) and being semi-obsessed over them (i.e. thinking about them, as in, stuff like what are they doing, was that smile meant for me, etc) and getting giddy over the thought of you dating... in a non-sexual way :p

Its everything people who want sex do... without the sex.

that is kind of how I feel about my current crush, want to hear the funny part? I can kinda be a pervert at times, so this chaste way of thinking is not my default setting
 
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LUCKY THEM.


*not bitter*

She's lucky that she lives 2,500 miles away from me? To keep me from asking her out?

C'mon, I don't bite.... well, not hard, anyway.

I just figured I had finished my daily dose of rejection when I got through the responses to job applications in my email:

"We're sorry, the position has been filed."

"The position you applied for has been put on hold."

"We are furthering discussions with more qualified candidates at this time."

"We received over 6,000 applications for this position and will be in touch at a later date."

"Go to hell, loser."

I think I'm going back to bed now. Maybe I'll wake up on the right side of the bed next time.
 
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An asexual crush is me finding someone really cool and getting all giddy when I think of them, hoping that they "like" me (of course, I never realise or think that liking someone also results in sexual thoughts....) and being semi-obsessed over them (i.e. thinking about them, as in, stuff like what are they doing, was that smile meant for me, etc) and getting giddy over the thought of you dating... in a non-sexual way :p

Its everything people who want sex do... without the sex.

thats pretty much how i am when i get crushes. there's nothing sexual about it and IMHO thats how it should be.. sex clouds things and it should never be the main focus when pursuing a relationship. When i get a crush on someone, i'll think they're attractive, but its not like I want to jump them or anything :p they just interest me and i am intrigued enough to want to get to know them more.
 
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do you know a better way? ;)



don't worry, i'm totally in the dark on this one too, you're not alone :D


It doesn't matter who I might like, cause nobody likes ME lol.

Let's all play Yahtzee and put this crush stuff away for a while.
 
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It doesn't matter who I might like, cause nobody likes ME lol.

Let's all play Yahtzee and put this crush stuff away for a while.
Join the club.
 
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