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36-year-old virgin Christian man who's never had a girlfriend. And God made me realize a few years ago that it was okay if things stayed that way - better, even.
It sounds like you should talk to that friend more often; he sounds like a good guy. In the meanwhile, try to realize that being single doesn't have to go hand-in-hand with being miserable.
I don't even know what to ask...
I said it in my previous comment but, i'll repeat since I didn't read everyone's comments before I commented. I do feel like I will get married one day but, in the meantime, I don't kno what to do w/ the loneliness I feel.
My best friend is trying to get me to look at dating sites and what not. I keep saying no to that. I feel so stuck. Like I said, I want to talk to him about this as, it goes deeper then this but, I just don't kno how to talk to him about it. I always feel better when I talk to him, but, at this point, I don't know if anything will help. My friend is a good guy... a very good guy.
I know what you mean that being single doesn't have to go hand in hand w/ being miserable however, it has just been so difficult for me lately bc many of my friends or just others that I kno are either dating and/or married. I haven't. Never been on a date, never kissed a guy, never dated..... I can't relate to Anyone when they talk about that subject. It's depressing since most people get in their first relationship when they're btwn like 15-20 yrs old. I'm older then that and never done anything.... I sometimes hate myself bc I feel like it's partly my fault.
The only guys I seem to attract are either guys that are like 20+ yrs older then me, or creepers. I can't attract anyone regular it seems --- well, besides this one guy but it's not gonna happen I don't think. Its my fault. If I just didn't make the choices I did when I was younger, I think I would have already been in several relationships by now but, I'm stuck w/ what I've got now and although partly I want to change, I also don't want to change <---- I have this subject on a whole other thread.
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