klutedavid
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I am never on autopilot, only as a child. I have to think about everything, everyday.
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I am never on autopilot, only as a child. I have to think about everything, everyday.You make about a dozen real decisions per day, tops. The rest of the time, you're on autopilot.
I cannot see people as loving towards others. I have seen intense hatred of others, fighting, domestic violence, self ambition. I have seen wars, genocide, trade sanctions, poverty. I cannot recall ever observing the taxation department loving others.If it makes you feel better about yourself, you can live your life thinking you're logical and every non-human is instinct-driven.
Ever had kids?I cannot see people as loving towards others. I have seen intense hatred of others, fighting, domestic violence, self ambition. I have seen wars, genocide, trade sanctions, poverty. I cannot recall ever observing the taxation department loving others.
No. But I was once a kid. School was a place of suffering for those that were bullied. I have seen so many fights during school that I was shocked. The teenage years is where the trouble really starts.Ever had kids?
I would rather have your money. Mwhaaaa.That must be a terribly hard existence. You have my sympathy.
I don't believe that. You are a kind, generous person. Probably struggling financially because of your intense generosity towards others.Greed is one of my least favourite sins.
What are you even talking about?I don't believe that. You are a kind, generous person. Probably struggling financially because of your intense generosity towards others.
Its different when you're a parent. Life tends to make more sense. Can't prove any of that though ..No. But I was once a kid. School was a place of suffering for those that were bullied. I have seen so many fights during school that I was shocked. The teenage years is where the trouble really starts.
The experts aren't experts.klutedavid said:Young teen girls are the worst according to the experts.
That trait of humanity, loving others. If our society displays a love for each other, then I have yet to observe this trait. Certainly not a political trait.What are you even talking about?
So you would disagree with them. Young girls are not tribal and ferocious towards other girls. That don't meet the mark that they set?Its different when you're a parent. Life tends to make more sense. Can't prove any of that though ..
The experts aren't experts.
I think that you see in others what you are yourself.That trait of humanity, loving others. If our society displays a love for each other, then I have yet to observe this trait. Certainly not a political trait.
Correct. A very good reply. That is the disturbing aspect of seeing through others, your really seeing yourself more accurately. It is very hard to accept but true.I think that you see in others what you are yourself.
How come the human race does not display these traits?
All I see is obsessional self interest, only for a profit, I'm busy, look at me. As long as your nice to me, then I will be nice to you. Conditional love only when there is a return on that love.
I thought that humanity has a very dark side which is riddled through human history.
I cannot see a love for others, as being an evident trait in human behavior.
There seems to be a blindness to the true reality of our human nature.
I am never on autopilot, only as a child. I have to think about everything, everyday.
Kids' behaviours (no matter the sex) can be shaped during their 'pliable' years. Constant reinforcement (and attention) during the early years, I think, guides the behaviours during the teens. Genetic pre-dispositional behaviours also persist.So you would disagree with them. Young girls are not tribal and ferocious towards other girls. That don't meet the mark that they set?
So you believe politicians and lawyers are serving you and not themselves?All that shows is that you have a very narrow scope of looking at humanity.
I understand what you are saying and I have observed that some parents. Are very good at raising their offspring. Not sure what percentage of parents apply that kind of love towards their offspring.Kids' behaviours (no matter the sex) can be shaped during their 'pliable' years. Constant reinforcement (and attention) during the early years, I think, guides the behaviours during the teens. Genetic pre-dispositional behaviours also persist.
I think love for kids, develops when a parent experiences the responsibility highlighted by a child's clear dependency (in multiple ways) on a parent's coaching skills, (IMHO).
Can't prove any of that mind you .. Oh .. and 'experts' may not have acquired psychology accumen (and learning skills) themselves, and therfore can't 'pass them on to' their offspring.
So you believe politicians and lawyers are serving you and not themselves?
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