By the same token a person has to "make effort" to pay attention when someone preaches the Gospel. And infants do count (Acts 10).
Acts 10 does not suggest anything about infant baptism in fact let's look at the passage regarding baptism
43 To him give all the prophets witness, that through his name whosoever believeth in him shall receive remission of sins.
First let's be clear, what causes the remission of sins, baptism? No. whosoever believeth in Him.. in Jesus.
44 While Peter yet spake these words, the Holy Ghost fell on all them which heard the word.
The Holy Spirit indwelt the people as they believed, before any water baptism. They heard the Word of God regarding Jesus, they believed, and were saved.
bam.
no sacraments, no good works, they were saved by faith alone at that moment.
45 And they of the circumcision which believed were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because that on the Gentiles also was poured out the gift of the Holy Ghost.
46 For they heard them speak with tongues, and magnify God. Then answered Peter,
47 Can any man forbid water, that these should not be baptized, which have received the Holy Ghost as well as we?
The condition for them being baptized was them receiving the Holy Ghost, them being saved.
wow, it sounds like it supports Believer's Baptism, not infant baptism.
48 And he commanded them to be baptized in the name of the Lord. Then prayed they him to tarry certain days.
They got baptized AFTER they got saved.
If that is not the passage of Acts 10 you were referring to, I pray tell me what was, because I see in it support for Believer's Baptism, and being baptized after salvation not before or as a means of salvation.
But no, hearing the Gospel is not a work, God works through the Gospel to create faith (Romans 10:17), and it is that faith--as pure grace--which saves because that faith receives what God gives--passively.
In the same way, the baptized passively--not actively--receive what God gives in baptism.
There is a distinct difference. Someone will approach me with the gospel. I was approached with the gospel multiple times before I believed it (to be fair the first few times I was too young to understand it, and was actually presented the Catholic version of the gospel, by works. I knew pretty much right off the bat once I understood the concept of sin that there was no way you were working your way in. So I rejected that. But anyway, that's passive. I was minding my own business, and people I knew approached me to witness to me, my neighbors kept planting seeds in me until they took root. True, it took an invitation to VBS to actually get a better gospel presentation that made sense to me and Jesus seemed so amazing that I wanted to meet Him finally. The Catholic presentation of it had Jesus as the Son of God but I was supposed to save myself through my own works, and why Jesus was important didn't make sense if I was doing the work. God seemed impossible to please and so I wasn't pleased with God. However, learning that I
could not please God, and I was surely condemned, yeah, I resonated with that, even the most righteous claiming people, that Catholic daycare I went to, were wicked sinners, I could see that in people, and myself.
To learn that not only was Jesus the Son of God but He actually DID something for me, I deserved to go to hell, and He died to take my place?
Made way more sense, and made all the difference from being indifferent to the Son of God to loving Him. From that point on, I may have struggled with other hard questions of theology, and had doubts in infallibility of the bible, etc... but what I did trust, what I did know, was Jesus. That was all I had to take hold on, so I did.
The rest has been a process of trusting the Word of God over time, and frankly, the teachings of men have made that harder, and not just the teachings of men in the world, but teachings of men within the church, "church traditions" etc.
So sure, I did accept the invitation to go to VBS, and went there, but I'd been passively receiving seeds the whole time, some good, some bad seeds to be fair. The bad seeds made the good seeds harder to take root.
Now on the otherhand... nobody's ever tried to baptize me while I'm just minding my own business, unlike witnessing and sharing their faith, I have to go and find a church, I have to find a church that even has a baptismal, I have to go enough to become a member of the church, I gotta have clothes I don't mind getting wet, similarly communion, the church in question doesn't just give that to anyone who walks in the door.
It's a far cry from just hearing the Word of God about Jesus and believing it.
In the same way, the one who receives the Lord's Supper passively receives what is given, that the broken body and shed blood of Christ which was broken and shed for their forgiveness gives that forgiveness (1 Corinthians 10:18).
The faith which God works in us by His work--preaching the word, baptism, the Lord's Supper, etc--receives what He gives. We don't do that. The will is passive in the reception of God's gifts.
But are people just walking up to you on the streets and offering you communion and baptism? No. You have to actively seek those things out, and be a part of a church, and it won't be on the first day you go in there. Baptisms in particular may need to be
scheduled if they do them outdoors in natural bodies of water.
It's a significant difference between hearing and believing, vs seeking out a church to get baptized and take communion.
Hence in the Lutheran Confessions,
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God’s Spirit, through the Word heard or the use of the holy Sacraments, lays hold upon man’s will, and works [in man] the new birth and conversion.
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Therefore, before conversion of man there are only two efficient causes, namely, the Holy Ghost and the Word of God, as the instrument of the Holy Ghost, by which He works conversion. This Word man is [indeed] to hear; however, it is not by his own powers, but only through the grace and working of the Holy Ghost that he can yield faith to it and accept it." Source:
The Formula of Concord ~ Epitome
The baptized no more does anything in their baptism than the person who hears the Word does something in hearing the Word. It is always and only by the grace of God alone. It is not the work of paying attention when hearing the Word, nor is it the work of going to the baptismal font that saves. It is the grace alone, the power and work of God alone in God's Means of Grace which works faith, gives us the gifts, saving us.
-CryptoLutheran
except they sought out a church to have it performed on them, vs Christian acquaintances actively seeking them out as a part of the great commission.