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That's good.. be grateful for those large eyes. Don't ever feel bad for them.
Yeah.. but you still have to deal with doubt.. like the person you're with is not as satisfied with your appearance as she's letting on. What else am I supposed to feel when women constantly harp about height? Even more.. when I understand the psychology behind it?
No, but I would like for him to be honest.Would you want someone who was appointed to be your spouse to be vain ? (empty)
I agree that most women are 5'7 or shorter there is a rather small number of slender tall women out there of which I am most attracted to being tall and slender myself. Being that the average height of women in the US is about 5'4 and other countries even shorter us guys over 6' have a hard time finding women even with heels on that can get close to seeing eye to eye with them something a short guy doesn't have problems with.I would assume that someone choosing to be with you is satisfied with your appearance. Constantly worrying about whether your insecurities are a problem (such as height) would become tiresome and unattractive before too long....and maybe would make it an issue. I don't agree with your assessment of the psychology behind it because most women I know, simply prefer the guy to be taller than them...or taller than them in their heels if they like to wear them. There are plenty of women who are shorter than 5'7" so the available pool is still pretty large. And if a woman really likes a guy, she usually can get over any height preferences she had before meeting him.
I'd look for a reason that is larger than your physical height... A few women are that shallow. The grand majority only see it as a preference, but not a deal breaker.
I agree that most women are 5'7 or shorter there is a rather small number of slender tall women out there of which I am most attracted to being tall and slender myself. Being that the average height of women in the US is about 5'4 and other countries even shorter us guys over 6' have a hard time finding women even with heels on that can get close to seeing eye to eye with them something a short guy doesn't have problems with.
Short guys can wear shoes with heels on them to add a few inches to their height but overly tall guys don't necessarily want women that need stilts on to kiss them goodnight at their door step.
I agree...... intelligence, sense of humor, morals, beliefs, hobbies, and even location.Hence...height is only one factor in equation of finding a significant other ... and hopefully, not the only one a person focuses on.
I would assume that someone choosing to be with you is satisfied with your appearance. Constantly worrying about whether your insecurities are a problem (such as height) would become tiresome and unattractive before too long....and maybe would make it an issue. I don't agree with your assessment of the psychology behind it because most women I know, simply prefer the guy to be taller than them...or taller than them in their heels if they like to wear them. There are plenty of women who are shorter than 5'7" so the available pool is still pretty large. And if a woman really likes a guy, she usually can get over any height preferences she had before meeting him.
I'd look for a reason that is larger than your physical height... A few women are that shallow. The grand majority only see it as a preference, but not a deal breaker.
Do you happen to know the word in Scripture that "....... is vain" ?No, but I would like for him to be honest.
No?Do you happen to know the word in Scripture that "....... is vain" ?
Well, You could say the same about men who prefer skinnier than larger women.What about all those confessions I hear from women who date shorter men.. admitting that they secretly have a huge problem with it?
I mean genetically.. there will be women who prefer short men and men even shorter than her.. but by and large.. height is a pretty big issue with women.
Well, You could say the same about men who prefer skinnier than larger women.
Am I wrong?
I’m yet to come across a guy who doesn’t mind how large the woman is, yet I’ve seen and know women who don’t mind a man’s weight.No, you're not wrong.
That's another thing.. I see the behavior of men behind closed doors.. and realistically can't expect women to be much better.
Although their concerns seem to be more about youthfulness than weight. At least in my age range and beyond.
Well, You could say the same about men who prefer skinnier than larger women.
Am I wrong?
Concerning the title of the thread,No?
Only scripture I know about taking “in vain” is Exodus 20:7....
Mating usually occurs in similar spheres. This has been proven in studies and plays out in all echelons. Dating sites and apps won’t alter the truth.
There are many women who’d happily date someone of smaller stature. But they’re probably not the ones men are targeting.
At some point, you must discern the difference between what you’re attracted to and the caliber of women you’ve secured. Many are conflating the two and holding out for unicorns.
~Bella
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