4) if Jamin wrote "poor people deserve it" somewhere, I honestly and completely MISSED IT. (Where did he say that?)
I do not know how much experience you have dealing with people who struggle with mental illness, addictions, crushing poverty amidst poor decision-making, and victims of violence, urban blight, war and civil breakdown, and just plain human shortcomings..........BUT THERE IS A GREAT DEAL OF TRUTH IN WHAT JAMIN WROTE:
Can I assume that you were reacting to his statement that:
"There really is often nothing you can do because when you try to help they drag you down with them." ????
If you disagree with this statement---or anything else he wrote in that paragraph----I'm very interesting in hearing the details of your objection.
Being OBJECTIVE AND REALISTICALLY about poverty, mental illness, and even depression-fed-by-addictions is NOT "poor people deserve it" crap.
Indeed, IGNORING the facts as stated in that paragraph explain a LOT OF THE FAILED GOVERNMENT PROGRAMS AND FINANCIAL WASTE which actually have tended to make life HARDER for "poor people".
I see I've touched a nerve there...
It seems pretty obvious to me that both of us are reading between the lines, and we see completely different things there.
I read "homeless people are homeless for a reason" and the rest as a general statement that there's nothing you can do to help these people because they did/do it to themselves. To me, that's greatly insulting to the people who are in bad situations through no fault of their own.
Yes, some people are very difficult if not impossible to help.
I'm pretty hopeless in certain respects, I'm just lucky that I have a background and a bunch of other personality traits that prevent me from slipping into a life of misery.
I just don't like sweeping statements that write off a whole category of people who might be where they are for a whole number of reasons.
As for
your interpretation, drug addicts etc. - that is a whole different question, of compassion versus practicality. If someone isn't worth the money and effort, should we keep trying? Is it more wrong to leave a homeless drug addict to their fate and save money or waste that money on trying to help them? Is it more wrong to abort a baby with a lethal genetic disease or to have it, which could be a huge emotional and material investment that ends in a ton of suffering anyway? These and many others are all related questions IMO, and I don't think they have easy answers. Very few questions related to ethics and morality do.
"How best to help the poor" is yet another question. FWIW, I'm all for helping people help themselves. Maybe I made a mistake in assuming the worst about Jamin, in which case he is welcome to correct me. My previous experience with him doesn't give the impression of a subtle thinker who can appreciate the kind of issues you brought up with homeless people, hence my reading of his comment.
I hope that helps you understand where I'm coming from.
(BTW, wasn't the story of the brother KWCrazy's, not Jamin's?)