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Do atheists have hidden secret principles of happy living?

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I'm sure they do have meaning, and maybe some mode of happiness, of one kind or another.

Why "maybe" and why "some mode"?
Are you actually being serious here?

Why wouldn't an atheist be just happy, full stop? Why must it be "maybe" and "some mode" - as if the happiness experienced by an atheist is somehow different from the happiness experienced by a theist.

When a loved one dies, don't we all cry?
When something funny happens, don't we all laugh?
When fortune crosses our path, don't we all rejoice?
When we are happy with how our lives progress, aren't we all happy?

Do these words mean something different if you are a theist or an atheist?

But, in contradistinction to bona fide Christians, atheists just find their utmost sense of coherence and mental peace in something (or things) other than Jesus Christ. So, the question is, "Where specifically do they find their happiness?"

I'm sorry man, but you simply aren't going to convince me that "jesus christ" is your source of happiness.

When your family perishes in some accident, are you going to be "happy" cause "jesus", or are you going to be sad because your family just got killed?

If your wife gives birth to a lovely child, are you happy cause "jesus", or are you rather happy because... well, your wife just gave birth to a lovely healthy child?

Jesus doesn't matter in such things. You'ld be happy with your child, regardless of your religious beliefs. Case in point: I cried from happiness when my son was born. I didn't require any gods to be so moved by that experience. Neither do you.
 
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When a loved one dies, don't we all cry?
When something funny happens, don't we all laugh?
When fortune crosses our path, don't we all rejoice?
When we are happy with how our lives progress, aren't we all happy?
If you prick us, do we not bleed?
 
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Why "maybe" and why "some mode"?
Are you actually being serious here?
I'm being serious, but also consider to whom my post (#12) was addressed, DH. ;)

Why wouldn't an atheist be just happy, full stop? Why must it be "maybe" and "some mode" - as if the happiness experienced by an atheist is somehow different from the happiness experienced by a theist.

When a loved one dies, don't we all cry?
When something funny happens, don't we all laugh?
When fortune crosses our path, don't we all rejoice?
When we are happy with how our lives progress, aren't we all happy?

Do these words mean something different if you are a theist or an atheist?
I'm sure that atheists, like other human beings, find aspects of life that make them "happy," whatever that is for each person as an individual.

I'm sorry man, but you simply aren't going to convince me that "jesus christ" is your source of happiness.
Well, I wasn't writing to convince others that Jesus can be a source of happiness. I was writing to disagree with the OP. But since you've brought it up and we're on the topic, I'll just say that my view on happiness is that it is more of a mood that comes and goes depending upon one's situation on a day by day basis, and from a Christian perspective, happiness is distinct from the concept of "joy" as affirmed by the New Testament writers. So, in a certain sense, you're right: Atheists can have happiness in various ways just like Christians have happiness in various ways. But, to have the hope of tasting some "joy" which is forward looking even, that does take Jesus.

When your family perishes in some accident, are you going to be "happy" cause "jesus", or are you going to be sad because your family just got killed?
Of course, I'd be sad, maybe even traumatized for some period. But the Christian has an inner hope that transcends the calamities of life and which can still allow for joy, if not today, then in the future, and this can be the case even though the emotions must be crushing in circumstances surrounding a fatal accident.

If your wife gives birth to a lovely child, are you happy cause "jesus", or are you rather happy because... well, your wife just gave birth to a lovely healthy child?
Sure. But as a Christian, one sees most things in life within a metaphysical, theological context. So while both you and I will say that we were both feeling ecstatically happy when our children were born, especially if they were healthy, there is still a qualifiable expectation that is built into my happiness if I think that God has something to do with the birth of my child as well as with the possibility that I'll actually get to be with him forever and not just for however long in this lifetime.

Jesus doesn't matter in such things. You'ld be happy with your child, regardless of your religious beliefs. Case in point: I cried from happiness when my son was born. I didn't require any gods to be so moved by that experience. Neither do you.
True, no one needs a 'god' to be emotionally moved, but one does need Jesus--in all that entails in a biblical context--to see the experiences of life on a grander scale of value, beyond just the usual daily levels of experienced happiness that come as expressions of the values that most of us have. :cool:
 
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I don't want this to sound pejorative. I've often had a feeling that some fervent religious believers are actually rather pitiful. They've had troubled and distressing lives. So it's natural that they would latch on to a belief that promises a better life after this one. A life that's free of all pain, sorrow, and disappointment. And it lasts for eternity. My emotional brain understands how compelling that is. But my analytical brain says it's wishful thinking. Bertrand Russell wrote the analogy of the oranges. Suppose you order a crate of oranges. You open it and see that the ones on top have gone bad. Now what would you think? You might think that although the oranges you can see are spoiled, those that you can't see further down in the crate must be really, really good, in order to compensate for the bad ones. But is this rational? Isn't it more reasonable to think they're all rotten? So you'd throw the entire lot away, and demand your money back.

Given that we're talking about existence and not oranges, this sounds a lot more like returning the ticket, Ivan Karamazov style, than demanding your money back. Which ultimately amounts to suicide as the answer to an unacceptable world.

"And where is the harmony, if there is hell? I want to forgive, and I want to embrace, I don't want more suffering. And if the suffering of children goes to make up the sum of suffering needed to buy truth, then I assert beforehand that the whole of truth is not worth such a price. I do not, finally, want the mother to embrace the tormentor who let his dogs tear her son to pieces! She dare not forgive him! Let her forgive him for herself, if she wants to, let her forgive the tormentor her immeasurable maternal suffering; but she has no right to forgive the suffering of her child who was torn to pieces, she dare not forgive the tormentor, even if the child himself were to forgive him! And if that is so, if they dare not forgive, then where is the harmony? Is there in the whole world a being who could and would have the right to forgive? I don't want harmony, for love of mankind I don't want it. I want to remain with unrequited suffering. I'd rather remain with my unrequited suffering and my unquenched indignation, even if I am wrong. Besides, they have put too high a price on harmony; we can't afford to pay so much for admission. And therefore I hasten to return my ticket. And it is my duty, if only as an honest man, to return it as far ahead of time as possible. Which is what I am doing. It's not that I don't accept God, Alyosha, I just most respectfully return him the ticket."
~Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov​
 
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If you prick us, do we not bleed?

Can atheist go out in the sunlight or do they burn immediately?
Do you eat and drink like normal people or do you need some sort of special nutrition like human blood or the souls of tortured children?
 
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eudaimonia,

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But you are crying every day because you don't have a Jesus/Krischna/Lucifer/Master Lao, right?
I'm pretty sure that everyone without a religion is constantly unhappy and somewere between depression and sucidal tendencies. And everyone who does not follow my religion is just wrong or even very wrong.
Haha you are all unhappy and wrong. Eveyone but me.
 
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Do you eat and drink like normal people or do you need some sort of special nutrition like human blood or the souls of tortured children?
You don't have to torture the children first, any 'ol kid will do.
 
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People think happiness and fulfillment are complicarted/impossible dreams, when they're actually quite simple.

1: set a goal.
2: work towards a goal.
3: achieve a goal.

repeat steps as necessary.
 
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People think happiness and fulfillment are complicarted/impossible dreams, when they're actually quite simple.

1: set a goal.
2: work towards a goal.
3: achieve a goal.

repeat steps as necessary.
For me it's get a good career, marry your best friend and have and nurture great children. Boom!
 
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People think happiness and fulfillment are complicarted/impossible dreams, when they're actually quite simple.

1: set a goal.
2: work towards a goal.
3: achieve a goal.

repeat steps as necessary.
Theists have such a hard time understanding the point of those 3 steps. The point is to have a point, which we dearly desire but generally aren't handed by the cosmos. It seems if the point isn't handed to us by the cosmos, it's an empty, sisyphean task to them. They are welcome to believe that, but whenever they try to tell me my life is meaningless, I can't hear them over the sound of all the meaning in my life.
 
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For me it's get a good career, marry your best friend and have and nurture great children. Boom!

Sounds like you have two goals achieved, the third (nurturing children) is, as always, an ongoing project. Good on you!
 
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