It'd be easier if my ex cheated. He did everything except that. Well he had a baby with someone while we were still married but I'm technically the one who ended it because he changed his mind and wanted to be back together and I said no.
Even most christian diehards who would say that you don't have grounds to divorce and remarry ... would agree that the abuse you suffered would entitle you to be separated from your husband (i.e. you didn't have to take him back).
If this motivated him to move on to a new relationship, ... you, too, should be free to do so.
Finally, as "jane_doe" says above, your agnostic status technically frees you from God's expectations for your married life. You could, theoretically, marry your beau and then, move into a new era of christian life. Or, you could become a christian, ... and then, marry your beau.
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