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Im not the one who is dressing to attract attention, so I dont need the prayer.
I agree,I hate bikinis and when people wear dresses that are way too short.
Than again I also like short shorts just since they are so comfy.
How is wearing revealing clothing not seen as violating other people ? I personally hate it.
Also, I often hear women say they dress in what they are comfortable in or they don't want attention, but being a woman myself it seems like it's all humble bragging. Cause im totally sure you couldn't find anything else comfortable that doesnt expose your whole body *eye roll*.They want attention but don't want to look like they want attention. Kind of like when women post revealing picks on Facebook and leave a vague caption like just another day. And then they get a million comments from guys telling them they are hot. Sometimes I'm like we get it you want attention stop trying to play dumb already. Just leave a picture saying please tell me I'm hot cause I need to hear it at least once a day to feel good about myself again *eye roll*
I mean I think I'd be more okay with it if the women who do this would just admit it's about attention and stop trying to lie like the rest of us are dumb. There are so many times I want to call out other women for acting like this they get on my nerves. I always see articles on mean girls why some women don't like other women they never mention some of us can't stand other women lying.
No lol, only to dress properly and not show the desirable parts of the body.
Girls now a days dont care what they show and that is the problem, nothing I can do about it, but pray.
How am I at fault? I never asked any of them to dress like this, I never wanted them to, I never needed them to, but they do it to tease men on purposes. Thats not my fault, I'm human created with the same desire as all men.
Since there are people who find almost every part of the human body desireable, sounds like you are for a burka. Or do you think that only you personal desires should count?No lol, only to dress properly and not show the desirable parts of the body.
Life’s not fair and you don’t get to choose what others wear or how they act.Thats where your wrong, period.
If I should change then so should they, why is it just my fault?
My comment was not in defense of women’s clothing choice but rather to point out that, yes, you are solely responsible for how you react to what you see.I dont get you, you are defending sin filled actions by wemon, It not my fault, at all, like I said, if they dress like that, and walk around like that, and we men see it, then we are naturally going to be tempted into lust.
Again you are not taking responsibility for your own thoughts. Backwards thinking is expecting others to conform to your needs so that you are not tempted.If its a natural human nature event then You can not blame the ones who are being tempted, thats back wards thinking.
You seem to be demanding a lot of hand holding to get you through the perils of seeing an attractive woman.We are not machines that can be programed into your demanding ways.
No clue what you are trying to say here.The more in time we go the more back wards we become.
Why do you get to decide what clothing is correct or proper for women? What about what men wear? And cultures that require women to cover everything, such as wearing a burka, do you think the men around them never feel tempted to lust? Never fantasize about what her desirable parts look like under all that cloth?Whats wrong with teaching girls to dress correct? whats wrong with that? why is it so bad to have respect for how you look and dress? Why is it so wrong to have morality?
Instead of blaming me for a natural human feeling , instead, address the real problem by teaching them to dress properly.
Repeated because this needed to be said. AGAIN.No amount of covering will stop the temptation if you cannot address the fact that the temptation starts in your own mind and only you can control it.
Burka mentality.How is wearing revealing clothing not seen as violating other people ? I personally hate it.
Also, I often hear women say they dress in what they are comfortable in or they don't want attention, but being a woman myself it seems like it's all humble bragging. Cause im totally sure you couldn't find anything else comfortable that doesnt expose your whole body *eye roll*.They want attention but don't want to look like they want attention. Kind of like when women post revealing picks on Facebook and leave a vague caption like just another day. And then they get a million comments from guys telling them they are hot. Sometimes I'm like we get it you want attention stop trying to play dumb already. Just leave a picture saying please tell me I'm hot cause I need to hear it at least once a day to feel good about myself again *eye roll*
I mean I think I'd be more okay with it if the women who do this would just admit it's about attention and stop trying to lie like the rest of us are dumb. There are so many times I want to call out other women for acting like this they get on my nerves. I always see articles on mean girls why some women don't like other women they never mention some of us can't stand other women lying.
How is wearing revealing clothing not seen as violating other people ? I personally hate it.
Also, I often hear women say they dress in what they are comfortable in or they don't want attention, but being a woman myself it seems like it's all humble bragging. Cause im totally sure you couldn't find anything else comfortable that doesnt expose your whole body *eye roll*.They want attention but don't want to look like they want attention. Kind of like when women post revealing picks on Facebook and leave a vague caption like just another day. And then they get a million comments from guys telling them they are hot. Sometimes I'm like we get it you want attention stop trying to play dumb already. Just leave a picture saying please tell me I'm hot cause I need to hear it at least once a day to feel good about myself again *eye roll*
I mean I think I'd be more okay with it if the women who do this would just admit it's about attention and stop trying to lie like the rest of us are dumb. There are so many times I want to call out other women for acting like this they get on my nerves. I always see articles on mean girls why some women don't like other women they never mention some of us can't stand other women lying.
No one has a right not to be offended and if the sight of someone in the street displaying a bare midriff makes you feel full of lust, then you have a serious self-control problem. Don't blame women for your own shortcomings and weakness.Yes, we are to do what we can to keep from sin, and that also calls for us to ask the public not to offend us.
If you can't get the attention without dressing off, you really are in a bad place and in the wrong place when you have the guy. And I personally wouldn't want a man who went for me because of if I dressed off. That would signal to me he's too carnal. And my focus is entirely on the mission for God.Is it the lying? Or is it the attention?
I get it...and to be honest, you'd either have to be a very young guy or a very naive one to not realize that a woman wants attention. That's pretty obvious. If a woman just asks for attention though....then she gets it for reasons that she doesn't like. Guys would be asking her "What's wrong with you? Why do you need so much attention?"
Using sexuality is an easy way for an attractive girl to get attention. Personally, I don't see why it bothers anyone.
If you can't get the attention without dressing off, you really are in a bad place and in the wrong place when you have the guy.
And I personally wouldn't want a man who went for me because of if I dressed off. That would signal to me he's too carnal. And my focus is entirely on the mission for God.
Is it the lying? Or is it the attention?
I get it...and to be honest, you'd either have to be a very young guy or a very naive one to not realize that a woman wants attention. That's pretty obvious. If a woman just asks for attention though....then she gets it for reasons that she doesn't like. Guys would be asking her "What's wrong with you? Why do you need so much attention?"
Using sexuality is an easy way for an attractive girl to get attention. Personally, I don't see why it bothers anyone.
I am a woman posting this -__-. I am not a guy.
No one has a right not to be offended and if the sight of someone in the street displaying a bare midriff makes you feel full of lust, then you have a serious self-control problem. Don't blame women for your own shortcomings and weakness.
Self control is a way for you to try to control me and me natural felling's, natural human feelings.
I do blame wemon who dress like that, I never asked them to, wanted then to.
Its called a wanting woman and even God hates it, if God hates it I do to.
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